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So, my friend admitted feelings for in awhile back. We went on a double date, he kinda flirted but mostly acted like he never said anything. I texted him a few days later and he said he was busy. A month after, I texted him again and he said the reason he was acting so weird was because he realized he is not ready for a relationship right now "because of past girlfriends who now hate me. I have too much on my plate with school, work, senior year, and I'm just to busy to date. But, don't get me wrong, I'm into you"
We text every 1-2 weeks. He starts to make plans so we can go out, then says he is busy. He will text me the next week to see if I can go out with him, but that's when I'm busy. I'll text him, and the same thing... we start to plan, then he gets busy. He'll text me the next week, but I'm busy or he gets sick.
Then, he talks about us kissing. He is excited, because he'll be my first. He keeps asking where he can put his hands, and where he can touch me. It kinda makes me uncomfortable. Anyone know if this is normal for a guy? It makes me think he just wants one thing, especially since he's "not ready for a relationship"
He says he'll be pretty much free this summer except for work. I will be free as well.

What should I do? Should I wait or move on?

★ This guy and I look at each other & smile. Though sometimes we both act shy, nervous, & even ignore each other.
★ He used to (before we talked) stand beside me often; suddenly becoming interested on the poster on the wall.
★ I noticed him everyday at college (since the first day) & he noticed me too (at the same time!)
★ When I actually talked to him he was funny and outgoing person; we make a lot of eye contact and he looked cool; I always thought (before talking to him) he was a cute guy but now he's cute, funny, cool, smart and I think I like him more!
★ I sent him a message and a friend request on FB and he replied back accepted my friend request.
★ Recently I decided to look at his FB and I found out he has a girlfriend (I don't know if they're still together or not) –the photo post of him and his girlfriend together was posted somewhere on Feb this year; before I met him (at first I thought they're friends but when I looked at the comments it said things like your 'boyfriend' etc). by the way I don't know her; maybe they went to highschool together.

So is it worth going for a guy who already has a girlfriend?

Ps Have you been in a relationship but found out you didn't like him/her & only dated her/him because he/she said she/he likes you?

It's complicated.
Although I have had several relationships, I have never really liked anybody so far. The reason why I said yes was to appear cool and to not feel lonely.
Until I saw this guy and was totally struck. I really don't know why did he struck me, for he wasn't that good looking nor outstanding. But anyways, I think I found the first boy i've ever liked. I started talking to him but I was disappointed that he doesn't keep the convo going. So I told myself to never text him again if he doesn't text me back. And he didn't, therefore I just left the thing and tried to move on.
All was going well until he started following mine another social media. We haven't been talking for weeks! I was quite confused by this action, and I think that I'm probably over thinking. Anyways, I texted him again but he still appeared to be quite cold.
We are geographically separated and I haven't found enough common interest yet. I think we need to talk more and perhaps meet up.
So, after all those attempts, I decided to move on and forget about him. This is when I meet my current boyfriend. When he asked me out, I didn't even hesitate, because I think dating would help me forget. As soon as we started to date, I tried my best to act as a happy girlfriend in front of him and all my friends. But deep inside my heart I know that I have never liked my current boyfriend and I found myself still caring about my crush.
I kept over thinking those days. Sometimes I try to convince myself that I actually don't like my crush, and the only reason why i'm still interested is that I'm just curious because I can never get him. But while all those attempts added to the confusion, one thing I can be sure of. That is, I do not like my boyfriend, although he's nice to me and he's athletic and smart and outgoing.