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We've been together for 8 years, and he's the only person I've ever dated. We're kind of engaged, but not really. It's complicated. I just don't feel like a priority to him, and I don't know what to do. I've tried talking to him about it, and he either says he'll try, or that he'll work on things, or he'll do the complete opposite and say I can't and won't ever be his #1 priority and that he's just not capable of putting someone else's needs before his own. I don't know what to do about this, because I love him and I don't want to lose him, but I feel like things aren't ever going to change. I always put him first, make him a priority in my life, and I would do anything for him. If I ask him to do one little thing it's the biggest hassle and he makes me feel guilty for asking. What should I do?


(Also, guys, give me your perspectives on being in a relationship, being in love. Have you ever been in a relationship with a woman where you'd do anything for her? Am I crazy for thinking I should be as important to him as he is to me?)

Regardless of their ages. in my personal opinion for a man is much easier to remain single for a long time and for them is irrelevant to live alone and have fun on their own in comparison to women.

For example, if a man is lets say single he is not dating or even have a girlfriend he could walk out on a bar alone and inmmediately start making Friends adn even if the guy goes alone to a bar and start picking ip some chicks to take home or to have sex with ( a total stranger to put and example) . Noone will judge the guy for that action, people judge the lady instead and could say "she is there to whore around) but why people do not judge men?
If a woman enters a bar by herself and sit and start to drink or eat something, not only is dangerous for being a woman per se but people could asume she is a lady from the streets and it is there to pick up guys.

Then for a single woman I believe it gets a bit difficult to make Friends as quickly as single guys do.
Guys do not have to worry of remain single his entire life, they dont get pregnant they dotn give birth, their clock is not ticking nowadays in this era, they seem to lost interest in marriage and committment on the contrary a woman hits a certain age and their clock is alrady ticking to see if she can get pregnant or not, most women still dream is to find their Price charming and marry cause that is the way women are taught since we were Little, even if now times had changed on that and most women marry late or no marry at all or no have kids anymore.

For example for me it is very very hard to make Friends or new Friends, in fact I dont have so many Friends and the ones I have are all married with families, the opposite as me.