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So I've been a skater since I was a kid and there's always been questionable fashion choices within the skater culture since the beginning. And shoes are no exception but it doesn't matter because they don't last long from the abuse of skateboarding and rubbing on grip tape aka sandpaper. So usually I would get a 2nd pair to wear casually so I wasn't walking around with holes in my shoes. In the last year or so I wanted to get some nice dress/casual boots that I could go for hikes or random nights out/dates or actually have something that had traction in the rain/snow. What I've notice is I get treated better and I notice I get positive attention from guys and girls when I'm dress like some rugged wannabe cowboys, I get it and I understand to a certain extent but it seems as if when I wear my sneakers I'm ignored but when I wear my boots with something that suits them I have an extra bit of presence and women are more flirtatious with me... I just find it all so trivial and stupid, of course I do other things to maintain myself or look good but I find it so bizarre that something so simple can change other people's perspectives of me.

My SO and I are having problems. We are not sleeping together but we are co-habitating at her place. She cries and sobs (quietly) whenever I say I can leave. Yesterday she wanted me to leave. As soon as I was ready she changed her mind and wants me to stay for a month or more. Essentially until the lockdown has ended.

This morning we have a bit of a breakthrough and we are talking normally instead of looking distant and cool all the time.

She leaves the door open when she is getting dressed. I see her topless she stops dressing and looks at me for a minute. She lets me look. She changes later with her door open again. No look this time just casual like before we had our problem.

Then she starts getting dressed to go out. She plays cards all afternoon. She usually dresses a bit sleazy for that which is one of our issues. She likes to give the boys a downblouse show during the game. Occasionally she has meetings with clients she dresses smartly for those.

But this time she wears a sheer white top with a black bra and long black pants. Takes a little longer to put on her makeup. Takes some time selecting a perfume rather than the usual one.
I ask her if she's going on a date. She says she's meeting a client and hopes to make a sale.

She is beingI have never seen her take such care in choosing a perfume before or wear a sheer top to a client meeting. She sells custom made women's clothing.

Is she lying or not?

And if she is then what's with the boob show?

They know way more than you about purses, jewelry, make up, womens clothing and lingerie, sex toys, and even really knew their shit about a womans body than you do. And all out of curiosity. He dresses and acts like a typical traditional male other than that and is physically attractive to you otherwise.

could you date a guy like this?