Search Results: flirting with strangers

I meant to include a poll with the other question (https://www.girlsaskguys.com/guys-behavior/q1642366-guys-have-you-ever-actually-been-accused-of-sexual-assault-or)

With my recent Take about respecting space and not groping, touching or kissing random strangers, there was some misunderstanding among mostly males here regarding what I meant, and it seems that many guys on this site are convinced that they're always just one wrong word away from being accused of assault or harassment, just for simple misunderstandings.

Now, I personally think it's a great lot of hyperbole. I don't think it's that hard to navigate interactions without "accidentally" harassing or assaulting someone, or making them feel harassed or assaulted. I don't think it's that complicated figuring out how to flirt with someone and, eventually, try to kiss them, without making them feel violated. But a lot of the guys here seem to be under the impression that you "can't even talk to a woman these days" without "being called a creepy pervert or a rapist". So many guys commented on that Take about how it's not OK for women to make a big deal out of unwanted touching, groping or kissing because it's hard for men to know what is OK and what isn't, or when it's OK to touch and woman and when it's not.

So, I'm curious and I really hope that I get HONEST answers here. Have you ever actually been accused - and I mean either served with or threatened with charges - of sexual harrassment or sexual assault, when you honest-to-goodness didn't mean any offense and truly thought that what you were doing was OK?

If you answer yes, please describe the incident in the comments.

What I'm not looking for here is incidents where your advances were rejected or a woman merely called you a creeper or something because she wasn't interested.

This guy has been flirting with me that I've known for a couple years, I used to have a big crush on him and stuff but we lost contact for a couple years and then we bumped into each other a couple months ago and he started flirting with me pretty hard and I started flirting back.

It got pretty heavy, borderline sexting, but I recently went to add him on Facebook when I discovered that not only does he have a girlfriend but he has a three month old daughter with this girl! I told him off and said I wouldn't have any part in him cheating on his girlfriend and tried to just let it go from there.

But it's really bothering me that he's doing this to this unsuspecting woman. I've looked at her Facebook too and she posts a lot of stuff about how much she's in love with him and how they have the perfect family and I'm almost positive that he's not going to stop trying to cheat on her with other women just because I told him off and I think to myself that if I was in this girl's situation I'd want someone to tell me.

But I'm worried about telling his girlfriend because in the past I've tried to tell girls that they're boyfriends are trying to cheat on them with me, even sent screenshots and have girls play naive and choose not to believe me. So would it be worth the risk to tell her and make him hate me when it may not make any of this stop? Or if a stranger told you they're signifcant other was trying to cheat on you would you believe them?

Give some details in the comments but I'll leave it as a poll.