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First let me tell you what I define as chubby.
Above 120 lbs or 55kg IF she's below 6 ft or 180 cm.
I'm 183 cm / 6 ft tall and I weigh 60 kg / 132 lbs.
And I wouldn't want a girl who is above my height anyway so a girl of that height is unimportant.
In the school I go to being below or around 55kg is pretty normal so no problem there (no being that weight or less doesn't mean you're anorexic!) and most girls here have long hair so np there either. I simply cannot be attracted to ANY girl with short hair (above chin length)

I have also NEVER been attracted to girls who weight more than me or 55kgish and my question is, Am I alone in this? Am I the only one who thinks that hot girls are the petite ones and who is really put off by even a little fat?
Oh and being chubby does NOT mean curvy. Curves have nothing to do with weight (unless extreme cases) it's how everything is divided so don't tell me that skinny girls can't have curves.

I think it's unnecessary to go tell chubby or fat people that they are, because they are very well aware and shouldn't need to be reminded of the obvious. So I'm not the kind of person to hate on them or anything. It's their choice/fault to be in that state (I'm excluding people that have diseases/conditions that make them fat)
In short I don't mock them but I do believe that it's good that the beauty ideal is to be skinny not anorexic but skinny. Since being fat IS unhealthy and just being plain skinny Isn't (depending on your definition of skinny) I think this should push people to try to be healthy and not be fat, and I don't think that fat or chubby people should think that they are beautiful but I respect them if they are okay with their current state. The same way as guys are supposed to be buff and fit, since that is also healthy. If anything we should encourage people to be healthy and in the process become
"good-looking"
I don't mean to offend. I'm just wondering if anyone has the extreme views on beauty as i do

So I'm talking to this girl and at first she says she likes thinner men who are healthy and all that and I tell the truth; I'm sort of a skinny fat. Then out of nowhere she says it's okay and I should eat cookies, but I feel confused. Why the change?

I understand being concerned about my pulmonary health and while I can't walk up a flight of stairs comfortably I get there so I feel judged but at the same time she turns around and reconsiders and suddenly I feel confused.

Does she like me?
Do you think that we have a future together?
Is she making an exception to her rules about healthiness for me and can that turn out well in the end?

I understand that as a country, we had some major body image problems (likely on account of how fat our country has become). So, our nation began telling big girls they were beautiful and that they need not strive for the perfection they see on tv, which was a noble cause. However, rather than simply boost larger girls esteem, it seems to have created a rift between the two ends of the spectrums, with one being more socially acceptable to make fun of than the other. "Only dogs like bones".
Instead of empowering all women, it has simply placed them against each other.
Skinnier girls are now more self conscious than ever. Larger girls are so full of "big mama" pride and they've so thoroughly embraced their bodies that they no longer striving to lead healthier lives.

Bottom line. Did that positive body image campaign do more good or bad?

OK I am asking here because I see that guys seem to go to the gym hoping to get a six pack(yet clearly have no idea what they're doing) and they feel it will help them pick up chicks.

But then I notice girls saying they really don't care if they get a six pack and some even find them to be gross or feel the guy is just cocky if he even has one.

So girls, are six packs hot, gross, or what? I am even seeing articles that some people with six pack abs aren't even in healthy conditions and suffer from constipation, have unhealthy body fat %'s, live very restricted lifestyles, and take the whole thing way too far. I personally think a healthy lifestyle is more important than stressing over the visibility of abs. What do you think?