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The thing is women have more options in their dating life so I think that makes them be more choosy over partners.

I'm 18 and last year I expressed my feelings to my high school crush whom I met in 10th standard. When I proposed to her she replied, we are kids and we should focus on our studies and then being in relation, after all, we are kids and we don't understand what love is.

After few days she asked me to never text and talk to her again because now it's awkward and uncomfortable for her to talk to me.

A few months ago I had asked her for help for my sister and rather than helping like a friend she gave me numbers of other unknown people and said they can help me better than her. Her texts at that time were unfriendly and I felt like she is angry at me and was being rude. I know she could have helped me herself if she wanted to.

All of these reactions and replies are making me confused. I'm unable to understand her? Does she even have a feeling for me and she just wants some time? Or is it just the opposite of it?
I'm gonna apply for college next year and will barely come back to the city I live in right now, I don't know what to do about her. Is everything between us, (even friendship) is it over between us?

• https://www.tcpress.com/blog/dismantling-white-supremacy-includes-racist-tests-sat-act/

Standardized tests are supposedly racist because blacks get the worst scores, followed by Hispanics, followed by American Indians, followed by whites. What the people who hate standards can’t explain is why Asians get the best scores.

Nothing daunted, the Teaches College Press of Columbia University insists that “Dismantling White Supremacy Includes Ending Racist Tests like the SAT and ACT.”

The SAT was started in 1926 to set objective standards and eliminate unfair, subjective evaluation. It’s got to go because colleges *want* to make unfair, subjective evaluations of students – in the name of diversity. That’s why more than 1,000 colleges, including the entire University of California system have either ditched standardized tests or made them optional. Diversity comes first.

• https://www.insidehighered.com/admissions/views/2020/08/17/history-sat-reflects-systemic-racism-opinion
• https://www.nea.org/advocating-for-change/new-from-nea/racist-beginnings-standardized-testing
• https://www.nytimes.com/2021/05/15/us/SAT-scores-uc-university-of-california.html
• https://www.aacrao.org/resources/newsletters-blogs/aacrao-connect/article/the-racist-history-of-standardized-testing-in-higher-education
• https://dailytrojan.com/2019/03/26/opinion-the-racist-roots-of-the-sat-render-it-ineffective/
• https://www.thedp.com/article/2020/06/sat-act-racial-discrimination-testing-college-admissions-black-white-education
• https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/ncna1099416

If he was loyal and you'd been together for a while would you marry him? He might make $16-$20 an hour but he shows good qualities that you want in a person. Let's say he takes care of his body, is in shape, is kind to those around him but again he's not going to be bringing home bank. You can answer anonymously. Please feel free to speak your mind and don't hold back the punches. I'm 32 and single, almost out of debt (about $6,200 to go), but college just wasn't for me and I ended up dropping out with a worthless certificate basically. Unless I go back to school now... accumulate MORE DEBT and post pone life even longer than my opportunities are limited. I always liked working with customers more than being at a desk or working hard manual labor. I'm worried about hearing so much more about women today demanding high income from men which by the way most of us don't have across the board, and also that he better be able to always surprise and excite her. I didn't remember that being in the marriage contract but I guess modern dating standards...