Search Results: making first contact

Getting her to chase you, and why it’s positively changed the dynamic of our relationship

Disclaimer: This isn’t meant as advice, rather a personal experience on how getting my girlfriend to chase me has worked, and has in fact improved our relationship. You can choose to disagree, that’s absolutely fine. I’m...

BruceJender

Yoda Age: 31

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Flirting

How to Be the Guy Nearly Every Girl Wants

Okay so this is my first time writing myTake. I hope you'll like it. It's for fun and totally based on my personal experience. Be funny, loving and caring Everyone likes a funny guy cause everyone loves to laugh after...

hotstuffSRD

Guru Age: 27

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Relationships

Are we meant to be after all of this time?

Hey guys, So im a senior in college, and there's this girl that has always shown interest in me since the first Friday night of freshman year. Here's our timeline. Freshman year: hug me when i tell her my name,...

Eminem4life

Xper 2 Age: 29

Relationships

Girls, Are her and I meant to be in some way?

Hey guys, So im a senior in college, and there's this girl that has always shown interest in me since the first Friday night of freshman year. here's a timeline of what she's done all throughout. Freshman year: hug...

Eminem4life

Xper 2 Age: 29

Girl's Behavior

Broke up with my ex and she ran to Facebook and started posting our business?

My girlfriend and I were together for 8 months. I broke up with her this Sunday and I’ve been no contact ever since. I broke up with her only to find out she went on my Facebook page and posted things about our...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Broke up with my girlfriend and she exposed my business on Facebook?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Broke it off with my girlfriend and she posted our business on Facebook?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is it too soon to start dating again?

So, my fiancé and I broke up a month ago, almost two months ago. I admit that we kind of rushed into the relationship and didn’t really give it time to settle or build, which we should have. Within the first few weeks of...

noeliascastle

Xper 4 Age: 28

Relationships

Guys and Girls Don't Understand Each Other

Similar to what a certain Mr Efron said: https://www.youtube.com/embed/zY9TVpgqf_I Hope you don't mind me using the video man, I just loved it so much <3 I wish girls would understand guys better and see why we rarely...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Dating

How To Deal With A Ghoster

Hi all! Time and time again I've seen people on here ask questions about ghosters, if they're being ghosted and what they can do about it. Today I decided to write this simple myTake on ghosters, as a little guide for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Relationships

How can I reach to my crush, when I'm a shy person?

So I have a crush on a girl in my class. She is very pretty and very confident and decent. I see her secretly and want to go there and talk to her. But I'm a very shy person. I'm slowly building my confidence and...

lelouch456

Xper 4 Age: 24

Dating

Did I never had a chance with him or ruined it myself?

Hey, in summer I met a guy. We worked together for a few weeks, both heavy flirting from the start. After a week he asked for my social media. We started texting everyday. After two weeks I asked if he wants to so smth...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Guys, what do you think of girls who really care?

Recently I went on a date with this guy. We spend a really nice time together and he hinted that he wanted a "next" date... He was making body contact and very smiley and cute all the while we were together... Safe to...

liniana265

Xper 4 Age: 35

Girl's Behavior

Why does she do this behind his back?

This girl has a boyfriend and she acts like she's single with me. She has been throwing herself at me and doing everything she can to get my attention. She butts into my conversations to talk to me then hovers around me...

insidetherabithole

Xper 5 Age: 26

Dating

Should I be upset?

About 4 months before I met my girlfriend she was in an on/off relationship with a guy for 8 years. He was her first love. She ended things as he was becoming distant from her and not giving her enough love. When we met...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why do men constantly flirt and give extra attention if they don’t want a relationship nor sex with you?

This recent situation was with a man more than 10 years older than me who believes I’m too young for him. He knew I was interested in him because someone gave him my number, I asked him about getting breakfast and told...

Annewill82

Xper 6 Age: 34

Break Up & Divorce

Why do guys still lead girls own making plans and stuff and be “confused” ?

I was talking to a dude this whole year. At first it was friends with benefits. Then in August we got like serious. He said he fucked with me and we made plans and stuff. Just recently something felt off ( I think it was...

StarrySky00

Xper 4 Age: 26

Relationships

I'm good looking but can't get a girlfriend because I'm socially awkward. How can I change this?

Hello everyone. My problem may not sound real, but it's true. I am a very shy person, and lack confidence, because I was bullied a lot as a child. There was a time when I had extreme social anxiety, but I have worked hard...

lelouch456

Xper 4 Age: 24

Relationships

Who was in the wrong?

I just want to start of by saying no one is perfect My girl's flaws: -I told my girlfriend about this girl who screenshotted one of my stories. She had a crush on me a while back. I told her about it and she told me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Currently in the talking stage, and I can’t tell if he’s ghosting me or being distant because of school break?

I’ve been hooking up with this guy I know fairly well and things were going fine until last week. We normally snap everyday, and he’s usually super nice to me when we’re together. He’s good at making me feel like he wants...

aannesli

Xper 4 Age: 26