Okay so this is my first time writing myTake. I hope you'll like it. It's for fun and totally based on my personal experience.
Be funny, loving and caring
Everyone likes a funny guy cause everyone loves to laugh after all we are all surrounded by our own problems and it's good to have someone who can make you laugh. I personally think love and care is something you show doesn't mean you can't say it from time to time but the way you treat girls and think about them tells a lot.
Stay fit
Fitness is important. I mean who doesn't like a strong and muscular guy ? But it doesn't mean you have to look like Dwayne Johnson. Playing sports and eating healthy food does the job. Just stay toned. Girls are fine with it but having abs and traps are just like a bonus 😋
Be chivalrous
People are confused about this concept. It doesn't mean girls are weak or they can't do stuff. It's more like they should be treated special cause they're special. I don't know why girls wanna be equal with guys I mean clearly girls are superior in many ways. Girls wanting to be equal as guys is like a scientist who wants to be a monkey isn't it ? 😂
Why just why ?
Confident is the key
The benefits of being confident are nearly endless: greater happiness in life, freedom from anxiety and reduced stress levels, and greater self worth. People who are around confident people are also happy and get inspiration and motivation.
Your body language shows how confident you are so good posture, making eye contact, proper stance, decent smile says a lot.
Remember what makes you awesome. Your special skills and use them as an advantage to impress the girl you like. Girls like guys who knows what they want.
Keep an open mind
This one's create a lot of problems. Don't be sexist, racist or terrorist 😂 LOL jk. Try not to judge and understand the whole situation. Respect her choices. You don't need to like what she likes but there's no harm in giving it a chance for once.
Be a good listener
Oh boy !!! Your life depends on this one 😂. Girls like details so listening and remembering what she says is important. If you remember all of the tiny stuff she'll end up liking you more.
Be romantic in general
I mean you don't need to put your d**k inside her everytime when it comes to this. Loving gestures and making her feel special does the trick. Cook for her, give her small gifts like flowers and chocolates etc. A good way to show off your skills and impress her. 🤟
Grooming and hygiene is important
Okay so till high school I had no clue that a lot of guys don't shower or bath regularly. I shower twice or thrice a day. Why ? Cause I love it and it makes me feel fresh.
Girls always appreciate if you'll look clean and well groomed. We don't need to have perfect looks just stay clean and groomed. Girls like it. So shower regularly, shave or trim your beard and put a deodorant to smell mantastic !!!
Have a hobby
This is a tricky one cause a lot of guys don't know what their hobby is/are. So just be creative and find a form of art which inspires you. Some likes to play instruments, some likes to play sports, cooking, drawing or reading etc.
Career
Money can create a lot of problems. You don't need to be rich just enough to take care of yourself and someone you like ? I mean girls don't want a guy who doesn't have a future and your career is your future. Doesn't mean they're after your money or something. It is what it is.
Dress Well
Wear clean and well fitted clothes. Dress appropriately. Don't buy stuff from child's section. Spend money on clothes.
Something like this 🤔
And this.....
Yep that looks good 🤔
Change your ways but not for girls instead do it cause it's right and make it a lifestyle.
That's it for this time and avoid if I did any grammatical mistakes. English isn't my first language. Let me know if you like it. 🙏
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