What Girls Want From Guys

[MrMansonsPocketPssy]

1. We want someone to talk to who understands

Sometimes it can feel like nobody understands us in this sick, sad world. In a relationship, we should be able to communicate and not feel this way, even just for a little while. We want to be able to tell you how we feel about the relationship, about the world, and maybe sometimes smaller things, like which choker would go better with this shirt, or what CD to buy. Let's talk about our deepest fears, or our nightmares from when we were little kids. Whatever it is, I just want to feel like I can be honest with you and you can be honest with me.

2. We want someone who lets us be ourselves

Girls want a guy who will accept her how she is without asking her to dress differently, act differently, or get plastic surgery. Recently, I saw a question on this site about how to ask your girlfriend to get tit implants, and my answer to that question is to end the relationship if you can't be happy with who she is.

3. We want someone with confidence

We don't care if you're as sexy as Marilyn Manson and as smart as Anton LaVey, but we love it when you have enough confidence to not care yourself. Confidence turns girls on.

4. We want a guy who's hygienic and takes good care of himself

You should obviously take daily baths/showers, brush your teeth, wear deodorant, and clip your fingernails and toenails. It's not like a girl will reject you because you didn't brush your teeth on the morning before you decided to ask her out, but nobody wants to date Pigpen from the Charlie Brown comics.

5. We want an honest guy who keeps his promises

Staying true to your word shows girls that you're worth our time for a committed relationship. It also shows that you care about backing up what you say with actual actions, which is important as fuck.

6. We want guys who aren't afraid to be themselves

As I mentioned before, confidence is sexy. Don't dress or act a certain way to impress us or to impress your friends. Just be you, and fuckin' rock it. Chicks dig that.

7. We want guys who'll understand when we're in a bitchy mood

Everyone gets in bad moods sometimes, so don't assume that we no longer love you and are going to disappear into a fog of bitchiness, never to be seen again. Honey, I'm not perfect.

8. We want guys who understand our sex drives

Girls want sex too. We are not flowery pure little virgin fairy angels, or whatever the fuck society is portraying us as. You are not the only one who deserves an orgasm, okay?

9. We want guys who text us back

Obviously, you're busy sometimes. But if you're all up and posting on your conformist social media shitty little apps and you've obviously read my text, I'm pretty sure you can be bothered to FUCKING ANSWER IT.

10. Above all, we want guys who love us

Just being there for us and loving us is really enough.

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~ Mrs Manson

[Berethor]

"Nobody understands us, and they won't understand until it is far too late."

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XbIu2bdBhMo

[MrMansonsPocketPssy]

Relatable
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~ Mrs Manson

[Berethor]

Yap, and at least you aware of having a bitchy mood, many girls don't aware of it. :)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tcOV68Gx1YU

[Burgerboy21]

Admittedly, 3 and 8 are the ones I need to get through my thick skull.

[Burgerboy21]

Problem is, I have no self-confidence in dating and I'm 25 and have very little sexual experience.

[TheBigSoftie]

8 I still need to get through.

My mom CONSTANTLY tells me that girls are innocent creatures that don't want sex in the slightest and no means no no matter what even tho a bunch of women want to be controlled and say no to tease their partners xD

She also constantly says guys (including myself) are smelly and disgusting (and not chicks whatsoever) whilst some girls actually ARE kinky disgusting creatures. Before anyone gets triggered

1. Just smell a woman's shit after she leaves the toilet.
2. Check into them and realize how kinky they really are.

So yea

[Ellie-V]

A take that makes sense... genuinely refreshing ☺️❤️

[MrMansonsPocketPssy]

XD thanks
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~ Mrs Manson

[Tyliah]

Pretty much sums it up. Good mytake

[MrMansonsPocketPssy]

Thank you
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~ Mrs Manson

[Tyliah]

Ur welcome

[FunkyMonkee]

1. I'm there. Been that way most f my life. it doesn't help me get any pussy!
2. Ditto.
3. I wore a skirt and pantyhose on stage for 20 years and never gave a shit about it but my guitarists got all the pussy!
4. I'M not a Pigpen! Where's all my pussy?
5. I'm more honest than the day is long! My guitarist lies through his teeth and uses women like they use tampons and they KNOW that, yet HE gets all the pussy while I get nothing!! You were saying?
6. As I said before, I AM myself! I don't dress to impress, I dress the way I need and want to. Where's all my pussy?
7. I've been VERY close with 3 or 4 women for decades and never had any complaints from any of them about me not getting their bitchiness! Heeeere, pussy, pussy, pussy!
8. WHAT sex drives? If YOU had sex drives like mine, MINE would've been met hundreds of times, by now!!
9. I don't do texts nor do I have a cell phone, but I'll sit and talk with my best female friends in person, online or on the phone for HOURS on end if they need me to!
10. I MORE than qualify!!! Where's my pussy?

[Gopnik]

alright let's start:
I am:
1. someone who likes to talk and i'm very good at keeping secrets.
2. someone who's very open minded and likes to be himself and let others be themselves.
3. quite confident in what i do.
4. hygienic, i take showers almost daily, i shave when needed, i wash myself good.
5. someone who likes honesty and is good at keeping promises.
6. as mentioned before not scared to be myself and that's very noticeable in public places.
7. pretty understanding of bad moods i guess.
8. i don't understand female sex drives because every single one is different and it's down to the person.
9. i'm usually the one who texts the most.
10. i don't date for the soul purpose of dating and i only want relationships with someone i love, sex is not a priority and i'm not pushy.

i'm fairly good on that side but guess what i'm still single when i check off 9 out of 10 checkpoints off your checklist and yet here i am they still don't want me? how come? maybe it's because... my looks aren't "good enough"?
you fail to recognize that every female is different and oh would i love it if it was this black and white as you're portraying it to be.
i'm not hating on your mytake i'm merely criticizing the points i disagree with which is that every single person is different and nowadays looks do matter, maybe not as much as some guys think but if it was only down to what you're saying i would've gotten into a long lasting relationship a long time ago.

[Anonymous]

*. We want someone to talk to who understands*

Opinions always keep clashing

Women expect us to understand, but they fail to understand us too.

I hate people who don't have morals

Insecure men?

Don't complain about it.

Men are naturally insecure.

If you don't have attractive boobs, then you'll depend on your legs

If your legs are also not attractive , then you can depend on your back or butt

That's something men can't do.

Men have no idea what makes them attractive.
That's what makes them insecure.

Earlier men used to do laborious jobs that built their muscles.

Now, loads of men are sitting on chairs in their office.

Not all men have abs with muscular body.
All women have boobs, and 90% of them are attractive. More or less, they're attractive.

Ah, penises?

You may say that they're attractive.

But women naturally don't feel attracted to penises like men are attracted to vaginas.

Not to mention the hairs on men's body can also make them unattractive.

I have seen lots of bald men but never saw a bald woman.

Beard and mustache may look good on guys who are fair, it doesn't look good on men with black and brown skin complexion

That results in confusion and insecurity growing in men

And it's also not like we're getting loads of attention like women get.

Women don't have to worry about getting their man an orgasm. But men have to worry about getting a woman an orgasm.

All of these things make them insecure

And not to mention how women love to tease us by saying that we have small dicks that wouldn't be able to satisfy anyone.

[OlderAndWiser]

If communication is so vitally important (and I do not suggest otherwise,) why do you rely so heavily on texting, which is a very inefficient way to communicate and it has a fairly high rate of misunderstandings. And then you gety pissed at guys because they don't text back to you immediately but, if it was important, you should have called him! Are you gyuys afraid to talk on the phone? WTF is up with that?

[levantine99]

i'd advise them isntead to never listen to what they say, but to research what works with trial and error. humans are bad at pointing out their needs. they come from much deeper subconscious drives and instincts. and they flunctuate with time and hormones as well.

[DeviloftheValleys]

1. Check.

2. Only if "herself" is healthy for her.

3. Check... sometimes...

4. Check... most of the time... been ages since I shaved my pubes now.

5. Check.

6. Mega-check.

7. Check.

8. My girlfriend actually can't have sex. So check.

9. Check. Eventually.

10. Maybe check? What is love? Baby don't hurt me...

[spartan55]

#9 Uh hell no. Not when I'm getting... Hey, WYD... ugh Texting is a TOOL to communicate. You women seem to think that it is identical to face to face interaction. This couldn't be further from the truth.

[Jjpayne]

OMG!!! This is so good!!! This is really high quality stuff!!! NICE WORK!!!

[MrMansonsPocketPssy]

Thank you <3
xx
~ Mrs Manson

[ShadowofRegret]

An honorable endeavor, I pray you find the one whom you seek.

[MrMansonsPocketPssy]

Thank you
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~ Mrs Manson

[UmarSpiegal]

How aboooooout no. I mean is it really fair that men have to carry all of the burden of your emotions? Men do not want women with a lot of emotional baggage. Also, i never "accept her for who she is" crap. Because if you have flaws don't own them make them better, improve. If your also going to use a ton of rough language while in my DMs or anything like that then you might as well just leave no man wants someone to be his war, we only get women to be our peace.

[Kaneki05]

And i've got all these down appart from text back just sometimes i like time alone even tho i would say i would respond like 90% of the time so i guess that's good.

So girls line up...

[Malik00]

Well isn't that funny that sounds like all the things a guy wants out of a girl, are you willing to give the same?

[MrMansonsPocketPssy]

Duh.
xx
~ Mrs Manson

[Anonymous]

Honest is very important - thank you. And as it says in "Are Women the Stronger Sex", free from obooko, women are generally more evolved, intellectually, so honest communication is also important.
That's one of the reasons why it bothers me when people don't respond to our questions in texts, emails, etc. It's often because they don't know the answer (and don't want to admit it) or they know the answer but don't want to tell it.

[LegendarySir]

I don't know man, all this talk about X gender being confusing... like how? They're just regular human beings, it ain't that complicated. In general, the vast majority wants the same things in a partner, then when you come to specifics, people differ.

You Take is good, not bitching about it at all, but it shouldn't be necessary to explain this.
The same points can be applied to what men want in women.

[TheFlak38]

1. You want a therapist. No thanks.
2. You basically want to be a slut and not be criticised for it.
3. This is actually true. Most guys today don't get that.
6. Bullshit. A guy who is himself gets reject by you bitches every time. If I want to get the girl I pretend to be someone else. A man who is himself can't get laid.
7. Im not your punching bag. GTFO.
8. I will fuck you whenever I want to. You don't decide that for me.
9. My phone is for appointments and dates. Again, if you want a therapist find someone who does this for a living.
10. You don't want just one guy to love you. That's why you're on social media 24/7 uploading cute selfies and showing your sexual assets to the entire planet. Why would you choose love from one guy only when you can have thousands of other guys bombarding you with thirsty comments?

[MrMansonsPocketPssy]

You're just hearing what you wanna hear from what I wrote. Half of the shit you just said is shit I never mentioned.
xx
~ Mrs Manson

[TheFlak38]

Typical female reply. Getting triggered with the first opinion that disagrees with her. So much for your Girl-power feminist bullshit. Women truly have an ego bigger than the universe itself. Can't handle any type of rejection.

[Levin]

Lovely take.

Understand, that guys want the same things back :)

[Giggletr0n]

Well that would explain why it took me so long to find a decent woman, I am a horrible texter as I MUCH prefer face to face interactions

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Excellent Take, very well written.
I always do my best to do all those things and in a good way.

[DaMack999]

Fucked up sorry ass chick seriously. You need some help finding definition of " what women need, not what women wants". Clearly wants aren't necessary to men. We care about ur needs. Ur Bill's, roof over ur head and yes make u scream and moan in bed till u can't walk next morning. All the rest of stuff u talking about. U need a female friend to give u social life.

[bagsoftea29]

So have you watched it's not about the nail there is where the problem lies JUST SAH WHAT YOU WANT OR FEEL it's that simple if we know we know. lLeading us to the conclusion makes your genders right now problem irrelevant cause I'm an adult I'm not playing fucking peekaboo to find out what you need. Just say it a cple times and we will pick it up you women are all dif so chances are we dknt know how to respond at first

[bagsoftea29]

And all the things you want us to be let us be dont tell us how to act