How do I get the guy all the girls go for?

[BellezaHunter]

Okay, so I moved to a new country and this guy is very attractive. He gets a lot of girls and so he thinks he’s all that. I think I’m attractive as well but he catches my eye. His personality is quite nice as well and. I have been manifesting as well. Mind you I’m in highschool. Please help.

[WindAtMyBack]

Why do women keep making the same mistakes?

If he can have any girl he wants, what makes you think he'd be interested in you? What makes you think you could hang onto him even if you got with him? What makes you think he wouldn't just fuck you and dump you?

This is a side effect of men still being expected to make the first move. Women rarely do it - with one big exception. They do it with the same guys all the other women are going after. Those guys don't have to do a thing. They have no motivation to put any effort into getting women, or keeping women. There is no need to.

With men normally making the first move, they spread it out far more. They aren't all going after the same girl. They don't have this attitude that "I'll just wait for the women to make the move, but if someone is really hot then I'll make an exception." They'd never get by with that. So it gets spread out a lot more.

[Nawlins34]

Your only shot with him is to be something the other girls are not... WITHOUT compromising who you are as a young woman.

You said,

"He's very attractive"
"He gets a lot of girls and so he thinks he's all that"
"His personality is quite nice"

All of these work against you, especially #2.

So again, you have to be something they are not and be irreplaceable that he has interest in while be yourself. That's a lot to take on.

You have to get to know him and quickly because all the other girls have a huge lead on you here.

I don't think I really helped much, but I did clarify your situation. Good luck and be safe.

[t-8900]

ugh hypergamy is so terrible ain't it fellas? Listen this is how women need to think because it's annoying that all the women fight over the same guys when ONLY ONE is gonna end up with him and he's just gonna take turns with each of you. If you are a 7, go for a 7. If you are a 4, go for a 4. If you are a 10, go for a 10. It's that simple! Dont expect to get the most attractive and high value men unless you are able to match it. Fat chicks for fat lads, athletic chicks for athletic men, nerdy chicks for nerdy men. Yes there are exceptions and that's not saying that it works out that way BUT keeping your expectations realistic and within reason would make society as a whole better for men and women. there are some fat guys, ugly guys, and old guys that can score 10's but that's because they have fat stacks, not because they are physically desirable.

[0112358]

If you want to sleep with him, let him know you want to.

If you want more, it's not happening. a young guy who is hooking up with lots of girls is not going to stop doing that, for anyone. Doesn't matter what you do or who you are, until he gets bored of screwing new girls all the time, a relationship will seem like a prison to him.

[SunnySri]

It depends mam, whether you like him or is he just a target to capture.
If you like him show him your best qualities and your natural style.
In case of other option I can't tell you anything.

[Dr_Sausa]

Just by that picture, I see you have good taste in men. Most females on this site have bad taste.

[AmandaJenny]

Agreed

[Anonymous]

You don't.. That what wrong with the modern woman all of them think they're entitled to the best possible guys when they only make up 10% of the population. Sure he'll fuck you because its easy but he wouldn't date most girls.

[DocT1977]

He's probably hooking up with every girl he sees too. If you want anything else, look on.

[RHK36]

You can't. If you could he'd already be trying hard to holler at you.

[bamesjond0069]

Tell him and all other men no. If he sees you have standards with other men he will want to conquer you because it will be special.

[imhappynow]

Ew no if he’s getting all the girls then I suppose u won’t be any different. And yeś hi school yay ur not 30

[Jacked_Jones]

which country you go for? dominican republic? cuba?

[Anonymous]

He’s probably filled with disease if all girls go for him.

[Anonymous]

If he can get any girl, any time... no girl will be “special” enough to make him settle.

[Anonymous]

Is that him in pic? Lol

[BellezaHunter]

HAHSGHAHAA no. I just wanted some hot guy to get y’all’s attention.

[Opinion Owner]

Woo, girl😍

Follow him on insta and like a pic to get his attention I guess.

[AmandaJenny]

Make him chase you.

[lanadelrey25]

Oh barf

[Danny_dan92]

Stand out

[BellezaHunter]

How?

[Danny_dan92]

Allow me to elaborate.

Take two equally attractive women.

One knows how to hold a conversation

And the other one is boring af to talk too.

Who do you think the guy would more than likely talk too?