Guys, here is a list of how you can improve your appeal to girls.
So on GAG, I always see these questions where a buoyant looking man is smiling through the screen, under the caption 'am I attractive, if not comment on how I can improve my looks'. And quite honestly, girls can sometimes be cruel and picky on this site... I think that all men are attractive, I think all girls are attractive, but ultimately only when they are a good person. If they are a good guy and not... Let's say seen as visually pleasing, I belive that an attractive man is lurking under every lonely facade. So I've decided to make a list of how to break through that stage of no one liking you.
Disclaimer: I'm going to mainly get hate in the comments like I have in every single take I've done so far, im probably the most hated girl on this site anyhow. You can hate me but keep mean comments to yourselves. This is based on what I like in a guy, physically and mentally. Oh and if you do like it then follow me, like it, comment, whatever ☺️
1: Common sense, but: Hygiene
You don't understand how many attractive guys I see, but they are so badly kept that many girls don't give them a second glance. Shave! Every single day. Do it against the grain and ensure they is no stubble before you leave the house. If you do have a beard then ensure its thick and healthy looking. If you want to look extra posh, then go to a professional for a shave. And finally, if your rocking a beard then keep it clean and shiny.
Otherwise, you'll look like your homeless. Also, get your hair tended to as much as the average girl. It's scientifically proven that girls prefer a full thick head of hair, so don't get to enthusiastic with the buzz cuts. If your balding, take vitamin supplement. If it's that bad, shave it all off. You'll look a lot better with a sexy scalp other than a half head of hair like your Uncle Morris has. Also, buy some good quality after shave, use Lynx and brush your teeth.
2: Dress well and you'll see a difference
So people are getting to reliant on these nasty three stripe Adidas original track suits. They are tacky and represent poverty. I'm sorry, and I'm usually the 'wear what you want' sort of person, but they is a fine line when it comes to impressing girls. And truth is, after spending over £100 on a full Adidas/Puma/Nike outfit, you could have bought at least two designer shirts, a nice pair of jeans or a nice pair of leather shoes for the same price. Go onto male style blogs or Pinterest pages. It may seem lame at first but a girl instantly falls in love with the man who dresses like his life is together.
3: Have a hobby
If you saw Alex Turner on the street, he wouldn't really be swooned over. But when he's behind the guitar playing to millions, suddenly he the hottest guy in the world. Learn the guitar, paint, take up photography, tell that cute girl your into football. Honestly, it really lifts your appeal. Especially if your walking round with a guitar case or an SLR. God, even me as a girl has received much more male attention when my Nikon is wrapped round my neck. When someone asks "what do you do in your spare time" don't be the sucker who says "like I watch TV, go online and plays video games".
4: Be a Gent
I was so impressed by the guys in this suburban college I once visited. They held the doors open for me, helped me carry my bags, asked me how I was, gave me food. In the city, guys are more or less quite modern when it comes to looking after their girls. Like they just ignore them, unless sex is involved. I'm for gender equality, but it is nice for a guy to look after you. So basically, use the manners your mother taught you. It's not hard and can make any girl swoon.
Seriously, if your overweight or underweight then maybe you should consider working out. Girls don't expect you to have a ten pack, but being nicely toned can make so much of a difference. Guys like Taylor Launtner and John Cena don't have neccusarily perfect faces but their bodies make them much more attractive.
Offering someone a genuine smile is one of the easiest things you can do to seem instantly appealing. Practice smiling often, and try to get into a frame of mind where your grin is easy to trigger.Develop a warm sense of humour. Find joy and laughter in the ridiculous aspects of life, and don't be afraid to point this out to other people. Try to keep your jokes free of references to bodily functions, sex acts, or disparaging other groups of people.
5: Have a conversation
Being a competent conversationalist can help people feel more at-ease and relaxed around you. Know how to casually inquire about how someone is doing, and let that lead into other topics of conversation. Ask open-ended questions (for example, instead of saying "Do you have any plans this weekend?", which can be answered with a simple yes or no, ask "What are you up to this weekend?"), and stay away from contentious topics such as politics and religion.To sharpen your conversational skills, try striking up a chat with a stranger next time you're waiting around in public, such as at a bus stop or in line at the grocery store. If you can get a genuine smile and a few lines of conversation out of the other person, you're doing well.
So yeah, that was my list. Take it as seriously as you want but I'm sure it would help you. Follow me ☺️ And I'll be your friend.
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