What Girls Look For In A Guy!

[Sabrina_gomez]

I'll share with you the 5 secrets girls actually look for in a guy or future husband/boyfriend!

But you have to promise to keep it to yourself! 😂jk share them with all the guys out there!

1. His Smile and His Laugh

We all want to be around a happy smiling person don't we?

Well, when he smiles we smile too! Smile! :)

2. His Personality!

We looooove guys who have a good personality!

But make sure it's a cheerful happy one! ;)

3. How Romantic He Is

Girls love it when guys are romantic whether it's buying her flowers overtime you see her

or always kissing her when she leaves! DON'T SKIMP OUT 😂

4. His Manners!

Let me inform you guys of a little secret! ALMOST ALL girls' moms (and dads)

"examine" the guy and see what is bad about him (and good). They look at how he acts,

how good of manners he has...etc. It makes us feel special when our Boyfriend or Husband holds

our door open for us! (hint hint)

5. (Last but not least) His Clothes!

We always love a guy who is nicely dressed! When we go out on dates we don't wanna be the only nice dressed! skip those basketball shorts, and put on some jeans!

[CarpetDenim]

I would comment on the irony of a myTake all about personality aspects girls like in guys that happens to be filled with pictures of shirtless and/or very attractive men, but everyone else has already done so.

As for the actual written content, I agree with some but not exactly. A cute smile and a cute laugh are great to have, but I wouldn’t say they’re actually all that important, and they’re definitely not in my own personal top 5 things I look for in guys. And being romantic doesn’t mean wasting his money on flowers all the time. He doesn’t need to buy me gifts to be romantic. Investing time in me and being affectionate and sweet is all I need. Manners aren’t really important to me either, and clothes hardly matter at all, though I will admit I have a deep hatred of basketball shorts.

[Felinegirl]

I find it funny how the picture under 'personality' is a ripped famous actor taking off his shirt

And how the first picture under 'clothes' is a guy barely wearing any

That said, I don't completely agree with these. I don't really care about romantic behaviour or 'manners'. I have hands, I can open my own door thank you. But I do want a guy who is smart and witty, he should make me laugh and be able to keep up with me. I also need him to be honest when it matters.

Of course the author of this mytake is completely justified in her preferences! The beautiful thing is, everyone likes something else. So if you don't meet one person's standards, there can still be someone else to whom you are perfect just the way you are :)

[Sabrina_gomez]

its still nice if he opens the door
dont u think?

[Felinegirl]

It is, but I'd be just as likely to open the door for him if I'm at it first. Nothing gender-related to me.

[Sabrina_gomez]

I think its polite I don't know smh😂😂

[Anonymous]

What women say they look for in a man and what their behavior shows is often very different. A couple of examples:

1) The smile thing. Studies show your claim is not accurate.
www.sciencedaily.com/.../110524070310.htm

2) Money - the one you forgot to mention. All other things being equal, the same man will be significantly more attractive to women if he earns more money. Again, a fact supported by many studies. Here's just one...
www.newshub.co.nz/.../...-rich-men-scientists.html

Bottom line, if a man wants to know what attracts women to a man, he should observe their behavior in the real world rather than listen to what they say they find attractive.

[Northern_star]

exactly.

[Truthatanycost]

It's funny because the pictures in the take are more honest than what is written...

[Opinion Owner]

@Truthatanycost I'm sure it's some sort of Freudian thing.

[Truthatanycost]

This one is much more honest What A Girl Wants In A Man ↗

[thatguyfromtoronto]

Nah I'm not going to listen to this, I went through the phase of dressing sporty, then dressy kinda gangster in grade 9 to pretend to be a bad boy to get girls, then went through the preppy stage in grade 11 and grade 12 and nothing worked, being a bad boy didn't work, being nice didn't work...

Yo to guys reading this, just be you man, yes, none of us are perfect but girls aren't going to go to the ends of the earth to change for us. Just be a person, pick up traits that highlight who you are and as far as your dressing style... so what if you like wearing jeans, with white Adidas shoes, and a Marvel or DC shirt? if that's you, be you.

[thehk]

Cheers dude. I like what u said.

[Safa01]

@thehk preach🙌🏽

[Safa01]

Preach🙌🏽

[thatguyfromtoronto]

@Safa01 I’ve learned as a guy if she doesn’t dig you it doesn’t matter how much you try, you may agree on this, that sometimes girls may say no just for the chase but usually no means no.

[rufurrealz]

i agree with you man 100%. i did the same thing too. nothing worked. im sick of trying to be something im not just to get a girl because nothing works. im just being myself, yea, im a loner, but at least im content with myself and not pretending to be something im not when it doesn't even work. im with you man.

[Apope16]

1. His Money
2. His house
3. His car
4. His will
5. His money
6. His second House
7...

[Inneedofusername]

Stop blaming not being a millionaire for lack of women interest in you

[Genie23]

When I saw Taylor taking his shirt off, I thought your second point was- Girls likes guys with abs ;p

Jokes apart, Good Take! Those are some of the things I look for in a guy. :)

[Logorithim]

Yeah, the guy's financial and social status generally matter, too, buts so do the things you've mentioned.

[Anonymous]

What you forgot to mention:

MONEY: if your dead broke you an eternal limp dick. Unless we have some sort of maternal complex and want to take care of you. It's also amazing how good you look (no matter age/shape) if you are super rich. We can fake it pretty well just as long we can just shop and not work for the rest of our lives. Sure not all of us are like this, but most of us fantasize about it. Who wants to date a millionaire?

CHALLENGE: don't do what I say because it's a test. We want to purposely play games with you and see if you cave. If you do cave you are a chump and friendzoned. Forgot all that romance bullshit I said earlier; in reality we deep down know that's beta propaganda so we can have more orbiters and friendzone advantages. Also if you behave the way the interested guys behave in some TV/Movies (aggressive) we see you as a stalker and/or creep. But we don't care that nobody explained to you the truth until it was too late.

BAD BOY ATTITUDE: we see guys who smile too much as less attractive and too nice (there is actually hard evidence about this). Instead, make snarky remarks that satirically disrespect other people and be a douchebag. We know these guys are actually extremely insecure but we rather play dumb and go along with it. His asshole behavior pushes a twisted button deep in our primale sex mating attraction. We know it's like a drug and we are being stupid but we can't resist jumping in the pit. Then we will turn and complain about our shithead boyfriend (or ex we are still in love with) to the friendzoned guy who behaved exactly the way we told him. Poor fool.

[Investigator]

"His personality" *Shows Taylor Lautner taking his shirt off*

So, where in this equation does his "personality" come into play? His body or the way he takes off his shirt? I wonder...

I love how not a single girl has made an counter-point or bothered to, in any way, point out that this is blatant subterfuge. But they're all in on it, so I am not in the least surprised.

[Hariss]

I logged out, then I saw this post started reading all the comments stopped on yours, and I had to re-login to give it alike. I never saw a girl speaking honestly about how everything else matters and comes in to play except only those 5 points which never worked but none of them admit it.

[windknowsmyname]

quote from MGTOW
"dont take wing girl advice, its bullshit!"

"what women say vs what they mean is totally different."

this take is bullshit ( love mytake)
lets translate

1) look good, sexy, and clean. all pics are good looking guys with a 7incher, who are light skined. bonus.
2) show confidence cause personality is bullshit if make her emotionally satisfied she's cool.
3) show her your soft side one every blue moon, shell get wet, other days treat her with decent respect.
4 , be the guy she wants show off to her family and friends cause her life ain't complete til show off a hot guy and tell the world.

5) feed the bish, shell stay. i promise.

not saying this bad mytake, i fairly enjoy it, jus talkn shit for comedic purpose, lord knows we have sensitive people on this site.

[Riggers]

> Dosen't mention looks
> Every post is a model / ripped af hot dude.
> k
Literally all that matters is appearance, Anyone who says otherwise is a blatant liar.

[rubymig]

and money

[hellionthesagereborn]

So 1-4 are wrong. In fact studies have shown quite conclusively that women find a smiling man less attractive then a frowning or scowling one. They also found that men who score higher on the dark triad traits of narcasissim, machevelianism, and psychopathy are more attractive to women. They also are disporportionatley more likely to watch porn that involves violence against women and to desire violent sex, so again, nice is not what women go after, psychopathic tendencies that are just within the acceptable parameters of society are what is desirable to women i. e. completely and total assholes. Scientifically speaking of course.

[Inneedofusername]

Yeah, all of those things are nice, but if a guy ain't hot he's just going to be my friend xd
Come on, why do people always lie about such obvious things.
In relationship means that ---> you have sex with that person and that means------> you MUST be attracted to her/him in order to even get aroused. Simple

[SketchForger]

Personality

*gif of Taylor Lautner taking his shirt off*

... Ok?

[Wammu]

Hold on for a second. . . . Personality is REALLY weird as women describe it because it's too broad. Women want masculine men who get to the point and relate to them as male to female in a non-platonic way.

[Sabrina_gomez]

lol😂😂😂

[humptydumpty01]

I smile, I laugh
I have a sincere and silent and happy personality
I am romantic
I am well mannered guy who is soft spoken
Well, look at my profile picture for reference
Still, girls don't talk to me other than notes and assignments

[Sabrina_gomez]

yikes
sorry

[mike13]

6, What kind of car does he drive. 7, What kind of job does he have. 8, Does he live in a gated community. 9, Can he take her on a world cruise next week. 10, How much money does he make. 11, Does he own an airplane.

[Benedek38]

I love how it says personality right above a shirtless Taylor Lautner, who has zero personality. Also, clothes, and the first guy is shirtless. OP is a damn liar.

[stormbreaker06]

thats all they want.

[thatguyfromtoronto]

well said, they say a picture tells a thousand words, in this case, only 2 words - big dick and money.

[tartaarsaus]

Seems logical.

I have the emotional range of a lettuce leaf, dress like I couldn't care less, have an ugly smile, am completely oblivious to almost everything, am incapable of understanding romance and am weird.

And I have always been solo.

There may be a causal relationship here.

[Saarr]

Ahahahahahah emotional range of a lettuce leaf, dat vind ik een mooie😂😂😂

[tartaarsaus]

😂😂 bedankt haha

[Anonymous]

This is the sort of nonsense a lot of young men grew up listening to... and it's why they finish last. Ignore this nonsense, just go take a look at the most how women act, and the sort of guys they mostly go for. Personality? :LOL, good one.

[DaMack999]

B. s women love a big dick or guy with ROLLS ROYCE.

[mobligator]

I'd bet big bucks that most women look at the mans face first and second his physique. Once she meets the guy those other things mentioned by the asker would come into play.

[Ellsie]

I'll be honest, this list sounds like it was written from a pretty immature perspective... a man with style is nice and all, but you can teach anyone how to dress. It's not a requirement. And everyone else has already pointed out the "personality!" paired with a shirtless Taylor Lautner -- that has to be a joke right?

What really matters is a guy that will care about your feelings, be considerate, know when an argument is not worth fighting, etc, on top of being self-sufficient and being able to take care of themselves.

[MemeSupreme]

The first one is pretty true because smiling can make a guy 10x cuter, but I think there's more to it than what you listed but your list is kinda just the basics of it tho

[MLGbreezy]

I like how you put a dude taking off his shirt for personality 😂😂😂😂

[MLGbreezy]

I'm surprised you didn't say body tho I feel like a dude should be in some decent shape if he wants some female attention

[Sabrina_gomez]

oh shoot I forgot that one😂😂