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I say genuinely because I'm not including chauvinism and sexism. I mean true definition misogyny and misandry. I'd say men probably are more likely to be sexist but as far as actual HATRED. I'm leaning towards thinking women. I'm asking this question because earlier today I was at the store and the cashier whose line I was in was having a conversation with the customer in front of me about how men are worthless, she knew I was standing there too. I was just thinking, Imagine if it was the other way around. Two men talking about how women are worthless while a female customer was next in line. I'm sure many people will mention incels and that's what draws me to my next point. The way I see it. Men hating on women is considered such an outlandish and taboo thing, there was a community just so they could find people that think alike. Now on the other side, women hating on men is much more accepted. Just take a look at all those Facebook pages like Female Thoughts. Upward from 50% of what they post is misandry. All these "Niggas ain't shit" type of things. The difference is. r/incels was a community that has been disbanded and was meant for guys who couldn't get laid. Female Thoughts is literally just a page that is meant to post female oriented things yet you see a whole lot of man-hating generating from it. And it's not the only page like it. My other reason for saying it's more accepted for women is because of my own personal friends. Ik it's anecdotal but I have two friends that always come to me with their guy problems and these two girls genuinely hate guys. Demonizing all guys, I wouldn't have the gall to say the things about women to them as they say about men to me. I'm black, what they do is like if one of my white friends came up to me talking about how shitty all blacks are. Like I said before. Sexism yeah I'll grant that men are probably more sexist but genuine hatred I'd say women probably have more hatred. But that's just my opinion. What do you think?

Okay, so I have met this girl, she gorgeous, she is sweet, she has got a great body, and eyes so blue i could get lost in her gaze, so... one problem we live 5 and a half hours apart. I have massive self esteem issues, I hate myself almost half of the time, somewhat due to my history of substance abuse and depression, this girl came along when i was vulnerable and lonely.

When we first met, i thought she was so great she was too great to be real, and so i didn't act on my feelings. However now I have got real close with her, and i know her & we make each other laugh, with our inside jokes & in general similar chit chat, and very similar humour, she tells me "how can i be so hilarious" & says "we need to meetup" again & again.

I have told her i don't think i can offer her a relationship, but really i'd do anything to be in a relationship with her, id give everything & anything, she is damn near perfect in my eyes, i just don't want to upset or hurt her, i want her to know how i feel but i'm scared to loose her. I encouraged her to date this guy, because i want her to be happy, i care about her more than i care about my love and lust for her, but i want her so bad, i want to be with & close to her so bad, however, despite having gone on a date with this guy, she's told me "i will never loose her" & "she wouldn't date this guy if he stopped her talking to me", that "she trusts me more than i'll ever know", that she is not going to sleep with him yet," that "i'm cute" we've exchanged nudes & she has asked me for dick pics, & has complimented me, and i have done the same for her, we have had conversations about sex lots, & how we like it & how she wants it, she's told me that our "relationship won't change" & "she will always be there for me" i feel like she is testing me by seeing how i react to her going on a date, but when that guy asked her out, the first thing she did was contact me for advice, & she asks me for advice on pics of outfits. help?