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I was seeing a guy for awhile, he told me from the beginning he wanted a long term relationship and would end it with me as soon as he didn't see a future. He had introduced me to his friends (he lives on his own so went out of his way to introduce me) and I would always stay at his and we would do fun things. He introduced me to more of his friends and then 3 days later I saw a girl post on his Facebook and they were majorly flirting back and forth. I had texted him straight away to say we needed to talk and he said we could meet up and kept putting kisses and stuff on the end of it. I didn't have time to meet up as it was Christmas Eve at this point so he said lets talk on the phone about it. I asked him again what it was that he wanted because at the start he wanted a relationship. He said he didn't know and was confused because a part of him wants a relationship with me but isn't sure if he's ready to settle down and I asked about the girl on his Facebook and he said they had hung out a few times (she posts about sex, choking and hating guys). I told him that we should end things completely then because I can't wait around and he kept saying he'll be in touch when he wants a relationship. We ended on okay terms he kept messaging me saying I'm amazing and that he told this girl he doesn't want a relationship and said he misses me and my company and I told him I miss him too but I need to do what's best for me. We haven't spoken in a week but I still see this girl commenting on his stuff and they talk back and forth. He snap chats me daily but we haven't text in a week.

I miss him so much and just want to message and ask how things are and just have a general chat. Would I be a fool? How would it look? I want to just see him for like an hour and just talk to him again not do anything but just talk. Would that be wrong?

advice and opinions wanted!

I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now and I think he is cheating. His friends are all cheaters and I just feel uneasy that he's around them so often. What makes matters worse is this girl that just forces herself into his company. It first started when she made a sexual comment towards him infront of me. They were than jogging partners later. I than saw a message on his phone where she wanted him to come over and He's reply was " I can't cos if I do I'll kiss the crap out of you". I than broke up with him. He pleaded with me to take him back, saying that he did not mean anything by it. It wasn't long after that and she was asking him to do favors for her again. (All of this was 3 years ago). This year she stays very close to him. Infact I found out she was cooking for him while he was recovering from his ankle injury. He promised me that he doesn't speak to her and he makes it sound like she is the one who is just psycho, but he always initiates the chats and also deletes messages from his phone. Do I break up with him or do I believe him?