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PROPAGANDHI
Refusing To Be A Man
I’m not going to try to tell you that I’m different from all the rest. I’ve been subject to the same de-structure of desire and I’ve felt the same effects; I’m a hetero-sexist tragedy. And potential rapists all are we. But don’t tell me this is natural. This is nurturing. And there’s a difference between sexism and sexuality. I had different desires prior to my role-remodelling. And at six years of age you don’t challenge their claims. You become the same. (Or withdraw from the game and hang your head in shame). I think that’s exactly what I did. I tried to sever the connections between me and them. I fought against their further attempts to convince a kid that birthright can bestow the power to yield the subordination of women and do you know what patricentricity means? I found out just a couple of days/months/years/minutes ago. It means male values uber alles and hey! Whaddaya know… sex has been distorted and vilified. I’m scared of my attraction to body types. If everything desired is objectified then maybe eroticism needs to be redefined. And I refuse to be a “man.”
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One of my all-time favourite punk rock songs.

What happens if the guy you want to marry, has an odd surname?

First guy — abused the girl for sex , manipulated her for months
Second Guy — helped her when she was suicidal after the guy left , went to a psychiatrist with her , listened to her
will you level the first guy as alpha male...
and the second guy as beta male , who has no value and even if he is good he will be valued after 28 years , someone who put his girl as a priority which is a bad thing cause girls love bad boys.

I am the second guy , I didn’t helped her for anything return. She was a friend who was in a lot of pain , but helping her for months I grew some feelings and when I told her about then after she was ok , stable. She did say those things to me. I am valueless , I will be valued after certain age.
Even though I accepted her rejection but somehow it still hurts. I am feeling used or something which I shouldn’t feel but I am trying to coup up with it.

Back in 2015, my girlfriend of two years and I broke up and it was extremely difficult and hard. She was downright cruel during the breakup and she said she never wanted me in her life again.
That night, I made a mistake, and had sex with a coworker of mine. Although the sex was wonderful, it was also me losing my virginity. But I did it without protection. That weekend was my favorite driver, Jeff Gordon's final Nascar race.
I prayed and asked for the girl to not be pregnant and for Jeff to lose the championship and my ex to be gone forever since they were the two most important things to me at that time.
He lost the race. She didn't get pregnant. I didn't hear from my ex.
But 7 months later, my ex reached out to me and we got back together within a week. We dated for 8 months before she left in her mission.
She had the values of her church pushed on her and she kicked me out of her life again and when she came back delivered an even worse and devastating break up to me yet again. Now it's been 9 months and she's engaged already.

Is this the prayer being fulfilled? Being tempted with someone I couldn't be with and taken away?