Search Results: what can push a guy away

Guys, when you say leave me alone to your girlfriend what are you usually thinking?

You know you have upset your girl & you have been bickering for a week. You do have a couple of family issues & your about to start a new job. You have also just got back from a lads (family) hol. The main reason she's...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, what would be the reasons for you to ghost a guy you have been talking to?

I have been talking to a girl, whom I met over the summer last year, for a couple of months now. Unfortunately, we live in different countries and may not end up in the same city at all. However, we have met during the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Is it over between us? out of character behaviour and I don't understand?

I've been close friends with a guy for over 3 years and we started dating just over a year ago. We have always had a connection & both care for each other. He is scared of commitment and at one point he ended things. He...

Anonymous

(36-45)

You See Right Through Me

I have been screwed over by all the men that I have ever wanted. They have blossomed my feelings only to block me from their love. I have spent so much time trying to prove to others that he really does fancy me. One time...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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My girlfriend admits she gets “scared” and pushes me away. Advice?

We’ve been together about 8 months. Throughout the course of our relationship she’s withdrew at various times. I’ve called her out on it and she admits she gets scared of getting hurt again or “messing things up”, so she...

HopelessRomantic2119

Xper 6 Age: 34

How do you avoid building an emotional dependence on your boyfriend?

When I fell in love for the first time it was an amazing and refreshing feeling. I was turning 20 and I was thrown into adult life so suddenly and so brutally that it hurt. I had to learn the hard way that the older you...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Was it my fault that my boyfriend and his brother fist fought?

I am not a drinker, I have a very low tolerance for alchohol. While we were at a party together (me, my boyfriend and multiple members of his fanily including many of his siblings and my friends) I decided to have 2 shots...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why I can't get the guy of the friends I want? What is wrong with me? 😭😭?

Okay every time I start to show interest to a boy that liked me and start to trust them and open myself emotionally to them they start to pull off I didn't even get the chance to give them the love I have to offer and all...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean when a guy randomly lay his hand on yours gently and then looks away as if he doesn't know his hand is on yours?

So I am in college and there is this guy that I kind of like. This past week we went on a mission trip to Guatemala with a group, we were friends before this trip but we got really close and we hung out every day. I...

coffeelover1999

Xper 2 Age: 26

Flirting

What does it mean when a guy randomly lays his hand on yours and leaves it there?

coffeelover1999

Xper 2 Age: 26

How Do I Look?

Creepy guy makes me feel unsafe?

There is a security guard at my university who is creeping me out. This man keeps it oggling at me and continously watches me if I'm around. He also has the habit of saying hello and bye which I found extremely...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Please read and help me. How do I take myself less seriously?

I take myself too seriously because of stuff that happened in my life. I had a mother who encouraged me to be myself, to always do what I enjoyed and who praised my artistic abilities. She was the type of person who...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he falling for me?

I've been dating one of my best friends for just under a year. We split up for a few months in between. Both times, he initiated the relationship. He was the one who ended it also stating we were too different. He kept...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Is it normal for a guy to text a girl right before breaking up with his girlfriend, then to proceed to text this girl everyday since the break up?

So I met this guy about 8 months ago and we hit it off really well. However, he lives in a town about 2 hour away from me so we both agreed we wouldn't date because of how far away we were from each other. So for the...

katydid31400

Xper 4 Age: 26

I push every guy I come into contact with away?

So this guy I liked that I met on bumble blocked me on Snapchat because We got into a fight. I really liked his personality. He said mean things to me that I didn’t like. It’s a pattern. I talk to a guy and I push him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When you miss someone who misses you back but still doesn’t want anything serious?

Was good friends with a guy who had a crush on me, didn’t feel the same however after a while I developed feelings and we started dating. Things were great but we never became more than a fling as we were separated pretty...

Teal97

Xper 5 Age: 28

We met on tinder and have been texting every day for two months, where is this going?

I met this guy on tinder. We hit it off, and he suggested we meet after two weeks of constant texting. So we had a date at his place. It was really nice, and I felt intense chemistry. We watched 2 movies, talked a lot,...

Anonymous

(25-29)