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In general I feel men are pressured by society to NOT speak their minds about the issues they have about women publicly. If you don’t believe me then just see how often women post openly on social media about their relationship anger, frustrations, heartbreak, “sexism”, etc vs. how often men do it. However internally men feel all the exact same negative emotions but we are trained not to express them. It’s one of the reasons you see guys writing and posting more on GAG. The anonymity gives us a safer place to ventilate.

There are a few reasons why men are more restrained. Part of it is due to some of us being raised to be chivalrous to women. Unfortunately some women see this as weakness and take advantage of guys who instinctively treat women well. Also feminist propaganda says that a man expressing anger (verbally) is “threatening” and “words can be violence”. When it comes to heartbreak we get far less leeway to look like “bitches”. We train ourselves not to cry.

But seriously if men were allowed to speak their minds (including anger) it would actually be a safer way to ventilate. There would be less REAL violence, less depression, less substance abuse, etc. Just because a guy is pissed off it doesn’t mean he doesn’t have self restraint to not take things over the line.

I feel like I was born a psychopath, reason being.. I've never really felt an emotion, always felt dead inside and careless towards everything and everyone.
apparently I use to crack my parents on the head with tea cups when I was a toddler,
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I also liked to cut off snails eyes with knife for fun.
Also don't really have morals, I would steal a billion bucks off someone if they left their credit card in a ATM and I wouldn't feel bad about doing it..

But, I think I have learnt to have empathy for others somewhere down the road, Think it was when I was like 6, I recorded a video of myself kicking kittens on my mum's phone and pouring boiling water on my pet dog (don't ask why)

N My mum obviously saw the video, told off and called me cruel and told me to put my self in their shoes imagine if it was happening to me (something I never done before) And since I started doing that, I started seeing myself in other people

Now.. when I see 3 guys 1 hammer (real murder video) although I don't really feel "bad" or care for the victim... I imagine myself being him and wouldn't wanna have my head smashed in with a hammer if I was him so I would reframe smashing his face in with the hammer if I was the purpertrater in the vid,

even tho I would find it fun to torture him, I would choose not to simply cos it would suck if I was him. So I think this is something you can teach pscyhopaths... I think you can teach them empathy... Or maybe I'm not actually a psychopath but jus confused... maybe it's impossible for real psychopaths to feel any empathy at all?