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I met this guy through another friend on PlayStation. He would only be on Saturday nights so we didn’t spend that much time together playing games plus we live in different countries so the time interferes. He would message me wanting to chat and I found out he’s disabled like wheelchair bound disabled. I felt sorry for him so I’ve always been nice and friendly but never at all flirty. I told him ages ago I live with my boyfriend so he knows I’m not single. I have him on Facebook but we don’t talk rarely unless it’s asking if I’ll be on PlayStation any other additional nights (I always say I’m not and appear offline)
Last weekend he started pushing for voice chat and I kept avoiding it.
finally gave in last night which to me was a huge mistake coz after only being on voice chat with him for maybe 30 mins after I made an excuse and left the voice chat. He’s now calling me his “online girlfriend” and shit.
How the hell do I nicely tell him that’s inappropriate? I never replied to him after that.
I’m 3 years older then him. I’m 29 and he’s 26 but I’m guessing due to his disability he’s never had a girlfriend and doesn’t have much luck.

In the past a former girlfriend left him for a physician when he was financially struggling and a couple other people wronged him.

He's now 35 and always wanted a family but was afraid of landing a golddigger. He recently proposed to his girlfriend with a fake ring (keeping the real golden one hidden in his workplace locker), said he couldn't afford a good one due to his recent hours reduction and bills but she was still happy. According to him, her reply was like ''Doesn't matter, it's you I want to spent my life with not the ring. If you want, I can work overtime hours''.

He has tested her in the past and did two more recently but none seems to be indicating her being a golddigger. Actually she's into saving money and once made him return an expensive Louis Vuitton purse. She didn't want it. She finds it pointless to waste money on expensive, fancy things. To his amaze, she's passed all and has passed the last one too.

At this moment, he feels he can trust her and is willing to get her the other ring sometime this week. In your opinion was he still right to test her?

context:
i’ve been friends with this guy for about 5 years, i was attracted to him as soon as he transferred to my school but he hadn’t noticed me. The same day he transferred a few others had too, his future girlfriend and i became friends that same year as well.

Throughout that year i really didn’t have any close friends and she didn’t either so i felt like we kinda leaned on each other and we were inseparable. The 2 people dated for a year until the girl left for another country and they spent about 4 more years dating long distance. They were a big deal at my school, everyone shipped them and they had accounts together. They broke up 2 months ago.

The thing is that the guy is now interested in me (i have a spy on the inside that has told me so) and i don’t know what to do. I’m attracted to him but then there’s also this past relationship with the girl. Even though the girl and I don’t actively talk at all and to be honest i didn’t really like her before, we were still friends and she still talks to me when it’s my birthday, my grad, tells me she misses me and just basic catching up things. I don’t know what to do!