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I received a Twitter friend request however I never really used or post Twitter except to read about memes or events or stuff like that. So when I received the request I saw that it was from someone I didn’t know who had no picture.

The account had just been made and no following or followers. But the username was spelled just like my ex name minus one letter. So I messaged the person because I was suspicious and ask them who is this? They said oh I’m dedmond but my friends call me dezi ( his name is Dezmond like seriously) I just added you because I saw you in my feed and thought you were cute.

I’m pretty sure when you start a new account you don’t have feed. Plus since he has friends why didn’t he add them to create following instead of a stranger. I said oh that’s okay just saw you opened this account and I wasn’t sure I knew you.

I asked him where he was from he told me nyc ( my ex is in another state ) I told him where I was from and I asked his age he told me 19 ( my ex is older) I told him I was 22 and I was winter baby, I asked him what his birthday he told me November 6th (my ex bday in September) so at this point I start thinking okay maybe it’s not him.

Maybe just a 19 year old from nyc whose trying to make friends? so we’re having a conversation about likes and dislikes and all of sudden. He had blocked me and deactivated the account.

The reason I’m concerned because my ex and me have been broken up for 2 years, he’s in a relationship and I have moved on. The last time we talked was last year and he invited me to see him but then blocked me I decide it was best to get over things and MOVE ON so I did. He also friend requested me on Snapchat this summer then watch my stories and block em after.

I dated someone else for awhile it didn’t work out but I was okay, focused on school work mental health and family and friends so I’m happy right now. Could he have been looking for closure?

I have watched this happen so many times! Many of the prettiest women I know get attacked by people because they look too pretty or too happy.

One of the prettiest and happiest looking ladies I know suffers from Lupus, is in constant pain, and cuts herself. But, because she is pretty and always smiling people pick her out to attack and insult. Customers will single her out and pass everyone she works with just to yell at her. A mutual friend once told her that she is too pretty so everyone hates her.

I'm pretty. Millions of men want me. I'm intelligent, successful, fun, funny, well mannered, and look like I'm just better than most people. Many people have told me I seem untouchable so they stay away thinking I'm too good for them. I've had multiple exes and "friends" and strangers take out anger on me because they were failing in life and hated that I succeed so much. They hate that I'm more attractive and could find a new partner more easily. They hate that I can just about not work at all and still make good money. They hate that people like me. They spread rumors, bully, cheat, abuse, etc. Anything to feel better somehow. I once walked up to a register, and the cashier's face immediately went from smiling to the last lady to as ugly and hateful as possible. All I did was walk up and smile.

When I ask these people why, they say they don't think it really matters. People like me don't need to be protected. We are so far above everyone else that they don't think what they say or do matters. People like me don't have real issues and never had to fight for anything or work for anything. Forget the fact that we have been abused and possibly poor or homeless. As if we don't have health issues, get depressed, raped, killed, or commit suicide. As if we are not humans...

Have you seen this happen? What are your thoughts?