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I've noticed that my guy friends complain about being "friendzoned" more often than my female friends. And some say that girls shouldn't say stuff to guys like "You're so sweet! How do you not have a girlfriend?" Nor should we say "You're like a brother to me!" Because they are probably into at least one of their female friends. Is this true? And if so, why are you men so prone to unrequited love?

Wasn't really sure what topic to post under but here goes.

So let me start by saying I'm homeschooled and live in a sorta secluded place so no neighbors. My only real outlet into any social life is theatre and dance so I don't have many male friends, especially not around my age (17).

I met this guy about 5 years ago now, when I started doing theatre. When I saw him I thought he was cute but it took me a couple months to start really liking him, and when I did I did hard. It took me about a year and half to start talking to him but a few months after we started we quickly became best friends (and I don't use the label best friend lightly, I could list every one I've ever called a best friend easily). Anyways, it's 4 years later now and he's still one of my only 3 best friends and I like him now more than ever. He's not perfect or anything but he's knows me better than anyone else in the world and is someone that know all of my secrets, except one. I want him to know, people always say that we'd be a great couple ( not just our friends, but adults , kids, apparently his mother even said she thinks he likes me), but I'm scared if I tell him he'll be mad and quit talking to me. Like I said he's my absolute best friend, I don't think I could handle him not talking to me. It's our junior year of high school and all I can think about is that times ticking, I know that soon we'll be off to college and the chance if there is one will be gone. I just don't know what to do. Should I tell him and risk losing a 5 year friendship? Or should I just keep it bottled up and be happy with the friendship we have? Help?

I wrote last year in fall about this guy on here, so if anyone wants to know please read. Long story. I had known him for 9 years from high-school, and ever since than he would keep harassing me and messaging me to force me to date him. I tried being friends with him but that was hard because I had hard time in life, had to deal with stuff and he's being saying how he would wait for me forever n I never even dated him. I told him to move on only liked him as a friend. Then almost every Valentine he would message me. etc. many guys like me but he was the creepiest to me. I finally blocked him in August 2014 on FB I know he wouldn't stop so it felt so good to block him. I had him on FB for 8 years and I was just being nice, should have done it long time ago. I thought he'd finally move on but he still kept persisting. He'd be very jealous of guys I'd date n sometimes put me down saying how those guys don't like me. I'm so happy I don't need to keep looking over my shoulder. For last vday I said hi back then he's like happy Valentine's day what your bf doing so special? He knew I don't have one so I ignored him. Plus he knew I don't feel same way. I decided to go no contact because this is too much. He sees I don't talk, ask him out, was still forceful. Move on. I'm going through same thing. Liking a guy who don't like me back. It's very hard but that's life. So he tried in August to talk to me again n I ignored him so he can get the message. Few days was his bday n I never wished him I guess he got mad n said hey your trying to be stuck up n ignore people now. Well yea Cuz you can't stop this obsesion it's creepy, if he was normal he wouldn't complain n move on. I blocked, him. 5 months, later he finds me, on instagram, follows me, never followed back. Ithink he opened it, to, find me. He never had it before he has no pics, at, all. I will block him again. That's creepy dude I blocked u on FB, why following me again. I wouldn't do that to others if they block me.