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Search Results: lowering standards
Black Priveledge?
all other races are held to higher standards than blacks. they have lower admissions criteria to colleges, ease of scholarships, and business are required to higher unqualified applicants to make race quotas. No...
Anonymous
(36-45) Men, why do most of you only want sex?
It's very frustrating. I'm looking for a man to be with long term. These days it's hard to find someone who wants to be together without lowering standards. Of the men who I come in contact with they all want it easy and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why are men expected to lower their standards with women but not the other way around?
Just like how men aren't entitled to sex, women aren't entitled to a man that women have very high standards for, or a man PERIOD! More and more men are going to expect more from women now because of the high standards...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) I want to help my ex but I don't know how?
So this past Wednesday my girlfriend broke up with me. She told me she didn't want to get attached because she's leaving in a few months to move to California. She also said that she wasn't good enough for me. Then...
rossfo
Xper 4 Age: 27 Do I need to lower my standards?
So, the fact that I've never had a boyfriend has kind of been weighing down on me lately. I know I'm young, and i know it will eventually happen but I'm so impatient to wait to meet the right person. There's not one guy I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Leagues Exist Whether You Like it or Not...But Here is Some Advice
What are leagues? It’s a class of people who you are (statistically) expected to date. Leagues class people based on the value of their physical attractiveness, education, wealth, and status. Leagues are social constructs...
Anonymous
(30-35) The Book Of Dreams: Vol. VI Part I
Vol. V Part II Vol. V Part I Vol. IV Part II Vol. IV Part I Vol. III Part II Vol. III Part I Vol. II Part II Vol. II Part I Vol. I Part II Vol. I Part I 06/01 Apart from being behind prison bars…I don’t remember anything...
Anonymous
(30-35) My friends all think my interest is ugly, when I find her very good looking?
This is a very odd phenomenon. Happened to me yesterday. I showed my mates who I'm interested in, and all of them agreed that she is anything but good looking. Came complete with the usual "I don't know which one of you...
DerSchweinehund
Xper 5 Age: 28 Should I lower my standards?
So I recently moved to a new school where everybody treats me like I'm really pretty. I had insecurity issues so I only dated nerdy boys who haven't ever had girlfriends and wanted one. It never would last very long. It...
Anonymous
(18-24) 
Have you lowered your dating standards as years went by?
Thanks guys, have a nice day. :)
Anonymous
(25-29) How I Built My Own AR-15 for Hundreds Off of the Price!
*Disclaimer* This is my build and recommendations for other builds. This is for entertainment purposes only. You must be at least 21 years old, legally allowed to purchase a firearm, and follow all federal, state, and...
front2back
Master Age: 30 Is this bad what I told my boyfriend? Am I shallow for saying this to him?
My boyfriend and i have been in the relationship for months now (over 7 months) and we are going good so far despite all the petty arguments. So he told me that he can't save up with only one job (his current job) so he's...
Anonymous
(30-35) How to tell if someone is being abused?
I'm doing a project for school in which we have to exhibit some of the tendencies of someone who is abusive (spousal) and someone who has been abused (parental or spousal) So what are some behaviors/tendencies do people...
LotusDragon666
Xper 4 Age: 28 Can't Force the Greedy to Share
Contemporary liberalism, at least with respect to economic policy, seems to have a strong focus on gross income inequality. This seems to be considered very unjust and an obstacle to a more prosperous society. I don't...
ak666
Editor Age: 45 Two Words.. Four Syllables.. Twice as Much Misunderstanding, and Three Times as Much Controversy: Double Standards
So before we begin.. It behooves me to admit that I almost feel bad for this. The more I consider this concept, the more misogynistic I feel. I never considered myself a misogynist, and so I'd be disappointing myself...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why Are Men Such Hypocrites?
Why is it that so many men tell a woman to lower her standards when they are unable to find a guy but they always reject women based on looks? They would never give a woman who isn't considered attractive a change and...
LolaB28
Xper 6 Age: 37 What do you think about women that have been on dating sites for years., and they don't realize they are single is because they are too picky on looks?
I have a female friend who is always complaining and wonders why she is still single, when she doesn't realize that she is TOO picky with looks. I understand everyone has standards but she is way too picky. She wants a...
steven7890789
Xper 6 Age: 34 How Do I Know if He or She is The One?
This is the third installment of updates of the significant myTakes that I wrote a few years ago. I hope this is even more helpful than the original post. We all know some guy who desperately wants to be married. The only...
u Would you lower your standards to avoid being single forever?
Standards for personality type and/or physical appearance.
pinkmoscato
Xper 6 Age: 29 Can you explain how you know you have met someone that is boyfriend/girlfriend worthy?
About half a year ago my boyfriend of several years and I broke up and although it's been difficult, I'm trying to finally get myself back out there. I am done with moping around and feeling like I ruined things. I have...
Anonymous
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