Sounds like you're mad that they had standards you didn't meet. They may have been shallow standards, but still. I mean, you literally say "Every guy I have shown interest in me has rejected me for a supermodel and some of them even tried to talk to me again after the supermodel fucked him over."
It's possible that they just don't find you attractive. I mean, it sucks, but at least it's not the other way around. Guys see me and just want to fuck me and then leave so I learned super early to not sleep with men for a loooooooooooooong time.
It's hypocritical but if a guy doesn't want me because I'm not 'pretty' enough, then I don't sweat it and keep it moving. There's shallow people everywhere. Learn to weed them out and not go for them. Just because you like them doesn't mean they have to like you back.
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"If it smells like shit wherever you walk you should check your own shoes"
Not every guy is like this; at all. If every single man you have ever met, in the variety of places you have lived has behaved this way then the above is worth looking into.
... come again?
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Women tend to objectively have higher standards. This is usually because of long laundry lists of requirements, or because of one extreme requirement. So for example if a man demands "she has to be hot" he rules out 70% of women, but if a woman demands "he has to have sixpack abs", or "he has to be at least 6' tall, not ugly, have a college degree, have a stable job, have blue eyes, be a dog person, be close with his parents, and be a catholic" she's excluding 99% of men, even though she may not have placed as high a beauty standard on men as men have placed on her.
Not all guys are like this you know this, right? And it's because most guys, at least from how I've seen my few of my "friends" handle this, it's because they think with their dicks and not their brain.
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Sounds like you are writing out of pure resentment. Men have standards and women do as well. Women reject men based on their looks all the time, and they even reject men based on nothing at all and with no explanation. And i think nobody considers a woman shallow for rejecting a guy. Keep trying and you will find a guy thats good for you. We all go through the same struggle
I train six times a week, I eat the healthiest I know, I don't drink or smoke. I always say the truth, I treat people warmly, and what I create professionally works nicely. I choose based on facts independent of what the general opinion is.
Simply few women reach that standard. I'm am lax with them as persons, but having a relationship with them feels like mistreating me.Why Are **People Such Hypocrites?
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Honestly, if you aren't attracted to someone then you just aren't. Things can change over time but there's limits. It's just human nature. Don't let it get you down.It only seems that way since it is mostly men who make the first move. But, in all fairness, women are just as picky and go after what they want.
I can sit here and rant like you and blame my lack of dating numbers on shallow women.People are people. Doesn't instantly change someone because they were born differently. Just how they grew up. Everything you say a guy will say also about women. So there isn't a difference in people. Just how they are nurtured.
you got me confused in this question. every person is different and will act different to different feelings and situations. I would be just fine and happy for a gal to be just her self. don't try to be someone your not.
Sorry you feel this way. I know some of the other guys have been giving you trouble in some of the other questions.
Don't let those pricks get to you, we're not all the same.Lol hypocrisy is part of the human condition.
A lot of women do have some seriously unreasonable high standards when it comes to the men they date, I saw this in New York when I lived there.this goes for both sexes. I never seen just one gender do better than the other in this department
Why are you talking about most or all men when really all you mean is the men in your experience?
Meet new men and open your mind, if you're lucky you will prove yourself wrong.Everyone is different a lot of woman also do the things you have stated so I would not say everything is gender specific here.
People can be hypocrites! Several women can be also.
I know. We're just godamn animals aren't we? Fucking men.
I don't think anyone should lower their standards. High standards are good. I hope you have them too.
For the same reason women are hypocrits on certain issues. Humans are hypocrits. That's life.
I personally feel you hang around the wrong kind of me.
That's not the way I see it. I see women as shallow when they only want a man for financial reasons.
Why are you so bitter? Maybe YOU are doing something wrong but you cannot see it. Blaming stuff on men always isn't going to help.
Not all guys are vain guys date who they like I've dated pretty to gorgeous an others that were average
She knows, that's her frustration typing.
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