Are men hypocrites or are they just clueless?

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Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

I think so because I was told to change my nose and lips! Sorry! I don’t find the typical Instagram baddies beautiful! I think even if a woman doesn’t have delicate features she still looks way better without surgeries. I find it hilarious when they say someone who got plastic surgeries is ageing well. They also say Korean girls are the prettiest. Maybe they haven’t seen natural women? Their beauty standards are extremely strict and many get plastic surgeries when they turn 18. Maybe it’s more common in the countries like the USA or South Korea where people are changing themselves drastically. All of the guys I’ve been with made me feel beautiful without makeup and here I get trolled even with makeup on. People irl both men and women have said positive things about my appearance so it is shocking when those on the internet say I’m “ugly”. It’s the biggest reason why most women in my country don’t feel the pressure to get plastic surgeries or completely alter their bone structure with lots of contouring on a daily basis. I was shocked when an Indian guy from America told me that women routinely wear a full face of makeup out there.

Women over here usually just avoid getting a tan (because people love a beige/pinkish/white skin), some red lipstick (as it enhances the contrast), get their eyebrows threaded (as “bushy” eyebrows are not popular here) and maybe some eyeliner. The average girl doesn’t even do that! I feel very comfortable being myself on a daily basis and still get compliments. They definitely like to apply a lot of makeup for weddings and other similar occasions but on a daily basis they don’t even wear mascara. Most don’t even use foundation or concealer. I would go crazy if I had to do my eyebrows, apply eyeshadow, blush, contour etc. every day! I’ve seen way too many girls with basically nothing but lipstick on. I guess that’s the average makeup look 💄

SueShe · Accepted Answer

It is not a generalized statement but in general, men are hypocrites more than clueless.

They will go to great lengths to tell you one thing and then do the other one. Mind you, this is not a single gender problem. Both genders are very similar but I cam across much more males that are hypocrites than females.

With all the deviant information found on the internet about everything, it is practically impossible to be clueless about anything nowadays. Unless you live off the grid without any means of communication, then you will always be able to inform yourself about anything.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Could be both , just like most females’ are as well , I rather be with a girl that is clueless over a girl that is a hypocrite , cuz I can’t stand hypocrites period or judge-mental people that think their shit doesn’t stink. But if she is clueless I can respect that , over a hypocritical girl that c’s no wrong in herself that thinks she is better than everyone around her. Most hypocritical people don’t have any respect for anyone but themselves , they act like they were put on Earth to be catered to and they don’t know what the word No means. Because they always think they are right without pointing fingers at themselves first. My ex was very hypocritical when she became friends with another hypocritical girl , that constantly talked shit on everyone but themselves , not realizing how pathetic they were and how pathetic they sounded together. I would just shake my head and think , have the both of you looked in the mirror lately? You both have no room to talk period. Their friendship with each other was so pathetic. to the point they started judging me and talking shit on me behind my back , little did my ex realize I over heard her conversation with her toxic girlfriend , and told them both to Go Fuck themselves and told my ex to grab her shit and leave and to go dike it out with her toxic girlfriend if you haven’t already. Her friendship with this girl was so pathetic to the point I had enough. They are both meant for each other because they are both selfish people that only care about themselves

ProbablyClueless · Accepted Answer

Men are mostly just clueless. Per my username, I just drunkenly stumble through life assuming that I have no idea what's going on.

The other answer to your question is that guys will select from the women available. If EVERY woman looks like real life barbie, that's what guys will pick.

lightbulb27 · Answer

it turns out dumb and dumber was right on target...

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

A combination of both. A lot of men can’t tell when a woman is wearing a natural look vs no make-up at all. But a lot of men are also shallow as hell and unwilling to admit it because they know doing so would make them the “bad guy” in every situation.

Unit1 · Answer

Eugh!

FoxnEagle · Answer

Oh we're hypocrites for sure, but it's just a tad more complicated.

We don't like fake women, we lust for them. I would argue three quarters of the time we're not even lusting after the fake part, we're lusting over the actions/attitude she is presenting.

Anonymous · Answer

Men don’t like fake looking girls when it comes to actual relationships. If we’re just looking to bust a nut or two than doesn’t really matter I’ll take fake tits, a fake ass, etc. But if I’m looking for something real, no I don’t want a plastic.

Jackblue · Answer

Honestly the best comparison I make is when (some) women say that don't care about how much money a guy makes and then go for a rich guy. People like to pretend they despise materialism, but in reality material things do tend to make people happier, not all the time, but a lot of it.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys who follow women do so because of those women's sexuality. Problem is, most women who post revealing photos are the fake types. But guys don't care about fakeness when when they're looking at tits and asses.

But when it come to real life and relationship material, fake women are a turnoff.

There's really no hypocrisy in any of that.

JesseP1nk · Answer

Oh thank god women are not hypocrites that say things like "i want a good guy" and then go for douchebags. Women are so perfect. They are like brilliants that should be kept under museum glass to everyone to see.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I think they like a girl they want to marry to not be fake but they still want to look at the fake intahoes because all men are perverts..

BrotherBane · Answer

This is funny, because the men who go for the fake looking girls are not the same men who said they don't like fake looking girls.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Other. Some. Add 'Some' and it's easy to agree. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

AviatorTom · Answer

We're not hypocrites but sometimes we are clueless.

Anonymous · Answer

Some of the men are hypocrites, whilst others are just clueless. Naturally, some of us really don't like girls who use makeup... I definitely don't like a girl who looks like Joker's twin sister.

Abdulwahh · Answer

It depends In all honesty yeah likely if they follow heavily make up model girls.

I like the natural look on girls soms lip gloss maybe some eye pencil thats about it, she doesn't have to be a 10 nobody is perfect.

Radiate143 · Answer

Oh yeah, this whole natural looking girl stuff is such bunk.

Jay-_- · Answer

Not accurate for men re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Hypocrisy isn’t exclusive to one gender. I’ve seen men and women being hypocrites

Anonymous · Answer

What you meant to post was, "Are the men I SEEK hypocrites or just clueless". There, I fixed it for you. 👍😉

Lokiion · Answer

A lot of them don’t know what’s fake and what isn’t

NathanDavis · Answer

can be both, and more...

alice55 · Answer

Women are hypocrite men are just selfish.

goaded · Answer

Different men liking different things?

noohair · Answer

Some both some neither.

Intheclouds00 · Answer

Both

Noodle_fan · Answer

Lmao!

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