Did you notice that even men who seem to truly be always gentleman can have another side where they aren’t actually moral people?

[Lipsneig]

I kinda assumed my crush was moral because he’s such a gentleman. But I’m realizing it doesn’t mean anything. Being a gentleman is great sure. I only know him at work thoguh. What if he’s different at home?

I don't know I guess it’s all a bit confusing. Never judge a book by the first pages.

[YevgenyMikhail]

Humans are flawed is kind of stupid to expect someone to live up to their standards 100 percent of the time.

Life is not a Disney fairy tale where you meet prince charming and live happily ever after life happens shit happens.

The movie force majeur shows the father running away leaving his wife and kids sitting there during an avalanche and not living up to his values he believes in. Most men would say they would help their wife and kids, but in those situations you really don't know how you would react.

It's the same thing like Kanye west say 600 years of slavery it sounds like a choice again you don't know how you would react in those situations where the slave owner can rape your wife and kill your kids when he wants. You don't know what you would do in those situations.

And this idea of gentleman is just gender norms they are not based in reality or in nature. In nature male animals will rape female animals all the time and it's the same thing with human and still goes on.

So no your crush is not going to be a Prince charming from a Disney movie expect there to be flaws and work with it as long as he is not abusive.

[Dan290290]

I think everyone has more than one side to them