Ok so they want to protect their own assets and are scared of the golddiggers going after monetary incentives. Understandable.
However, if a woman already had her own assets herself, doesn't want your money and shows 0% interest in living together with a boyfriend (she's happy in her house), omg ''how dare she acts entitled, how dare she doesn't depend on a man, how dare she doesn't put him as a priority above herself''.
So what do they want then? If she's poor and moves in with him, he'll keep her as a girlfriend to have fun with but won't commit because he's scared of his stuff taken away. But if she's wealthy and doesn't care about his money, she's entitled and should show some vulnerability and still depend on a man; he doesn't that either.
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I'm looking for a woman who will make me serve her and her boyfriends as a pay pig, maid and personal slave, and as far as I'm concerned, those assets instantly become hers the very moment that she chooses to dominate that ass.
You and her boyfriends? So you're looking for a polyamory relationship? Swinger?
Well that's a different lifestyle.
I was posting this because I got dumped once for rejecting to move in with a boyfriend because I got my own house and don't need anyone's money to survive.
When she has boyfriends
You can use me in any manner that pleases you, and the worse you treat me, the greater the benefit to you will be, in every aspect of the relationship. I'm not interested in a fair or equitable arrangement -- I want the primary function of the relationship to provide as much monetary gain as well as manual labor.
In the dating world you can either be the insufferable "Strong independent woman" type or the traditional type.. Most men dont want a woman who doesn't need him. Unfortunately that is lost on your kind.
I thought I was making it easier for him. I don't want his money (I'll happily refuse it) so therefore, I got my own stuff and would happily sign a prenup so what is there for him to fear?
I still got feminine qualities though.
He doesn't want marriage because of the 1/2 of his things golddiggers want but yet doesn't want a woman that doesn't need his money?
I suppose there must be some middle ground.. otherwise it's contradicting.
Its not that you are making it easy for him, its that you're making him feel unneeded. The most basic thing a man needs in life is to feel needed and useful.
yes, just like some women