And where is the so called ''Protective Instinct'?
Wouldn't this contradict itself? To me a man having a protective instinct would mean he cares about me and my healthy. Hurting me physically means and seeing me hurt as a result of what he did, would mean he doesn't care if I'm well and I'm hurt. I always felt safe with my then boyfriend. He would have never hurt me even if I were to hypothetically speaking (something I'll never do either) get in his face and scream at the top of my lungs. Certain men would probably have reacted (possibly throw a punch or something more) to that and thus that elimates their so called protective part.
Protective instint to me means that: caring I feel safe around him, not wanting to see me hurt and having self-control.
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