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Search Results: paying for the first date
What do guys really think when a girl splits the bill when asked out on the first date?
To be honest it can have different meanings: - She really likes your company and wanted to contribute by reaching out her purse. - The date was a disaster and she doesn't want to see you again - It can be either one of...
RKelly97
Xper 6 Age: 29 Dating guys that are tight with money?
This isn't a gold digging post or post about poor guys. This is about two people with expendable income. I spend well over $100 making Coq au Vin and he watches the while cooking process and also knows enough about the...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you think my date felt like I owed him for our dates?
After the first date, I'm a go dutch kind of girl (either he or I pays, or we both pay for our own). That being said, I started dating this guy who was, I swear, calculating our dates in his head. We would be on the same...
Anonymous
(36-45) Are real relationships a miracle?
I haven't dated in several months. Dating and I have been on the outs. It isn't that there aren't lots of lovely women out there; there are. My issue is not with women, but with the process of dating itself....
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, On first dates, how did it go when you told her you were going to pay separately?
Did she have an issue paying for what she got or did she like having each other pay for what they got?
Anonymous
(30-35) If a guy did this on a first date?
What would be your reaction if a guy used a coupon on a first date (two for one, % off, etc). He's still paying for for everything, but would it end up just coming off as cheap? Or would you simply not think anything of it?
Malcom_Reynolds
Guru Age: 39 Our First Date: My POV
It's Wednesday, December 10th and all I can think of as I slide on my cool and crip awesome shirt and pants that I bought from somewhere so expensive I can't eat this month is how wonderful I look. I stare at myself in...
Anonymous
(36-45) The guys in my school are making fun of me because of my butt?
So I wouldn't say I have an amazing body. I'm not super skinny nor super curvy. I'm a junior in high school and I have no boobs and no ass. It sucks being the one black girl in with no ass in the school filled with girls...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you think mothers are useless to sons for most part?
If you think about it, the only thing mothers are really useful to sons for are giving birth and feeding. Other than that, Fatherless son tend to be statistically more likely to end up as criminals/felons and most mothers...
Anonymous
(30-35) My boyfriend doesn't pay for me - what do I do?
Hi everyone, I am 18 and my boyfriend is 17 and we ve been dating for about 7 months. I guess I'm traditional, but I still am ok with spending money on him or paying separately. The problem is that I do it for him, and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why are most men still expected to pay for dates when most women now have more jobs than ever and are more educated than most men?
In America women now make up about 50% of the workforce. They earn good money and in some cases more money than men. Women eclipse men in college enrollment and yet most women still expect men to pay for the first date....
alfonsosloan45
Xper 7 Age: 38 Girls, What makes a better impression on first date, paying with card or cash?
So at work, a friend (girl) was saying she went on a date, and the guy was fumbling around his wallet unfolding bills to pay the bill. Ladies, does it make a better impression if the guy has a organized wallet and just...
HebrewHammer90
Xper 4 Age: 35 More than sex friends?
We ended it about a month ago becasue i told him i liked him and he said he didn't feel teh same. so we decided to be friends. About a month past- and the other night he showed up at my door uninvited at 2am saying he...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do guys feel paying for the first date?
I have a date tomorrow and I was just curious how careful I should be about spending. i usually look for the cheapest thing on the menu and only get water. if I were paying though, I would definitely get a glass of wine...
06CuriousMind
Xper 7 Age: 32 Texting aftwr first date + eye contact+ insisted on paying does this mean he is interested?
Went on a first datw with a guy 5 days ago He was very polite and was looking directly into my eyes the whole time. At the end he was very eager to pay for me. He texted me two hours after. I was away this weekend and...
lovelust89
Explorer Age: 36 Do you think there will be a second date?
I went on a lunch date last Thursday with this guy I met online. It went pretty well I only had an hour of lunch. There were some silences but over all I think it went well he insisted on paying. He texted me two hours...
Anonymous
(36-45) The Woman I Respect Most In Life
It's been my privilege and honor to know the singularly strongest woman I have ever met since I was 14. Looking back I had no clue to the depths of her Well of Strength. At first glance she reminded me of Marcie from the...
Chivalry, Feminism, and Why Men Should ALWAYS Pay on Dates
The initial goal of feminism was to establish equality among the sexes. An ideal goal to be sure, but also an almost unattainable one. In reality, many women choose careers that pay less and have less upward mobility...
DudeWithAHotWife
Xper 5 Age: 52 Dear Guys: I’m Sorry
It’s about time I make a take for the guys. I’m an egalitarian as you know and I feel that there needs to be more representation for the sexism that men face in our society today along with the unfair social expectations...
Why has my boyfriend already brought up money? Is this a bad sign? Where to go from here?
When I went on the first date with my boyfriend which was expensive, over $100 which were tickets to a show. He had pre ordered it. We had a meal each which was included and where I live water is not free, so I bought...
Anonymous
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