Search Results: relationship red flags

If you don’t need a partner why would you want one?

My upbringing saw the family matriarchs raise me in one direction, to be a good husband. That meant working hard to provide a home, security, and food on the table. Be considerate of your spouse. Make sure you’re meeting...

TwinTonyz

Xper 5 Age: 31

Relationships

Am I tripping? is this not a red flag?

Here’s some details of the situation. -They knew each other for years, and are good friends, also she’s his boss. - He’s 30, she’s 50. - She still is married to her husband but they always separate for a couple...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Is it a red flag? or are we just used to red flags?

Ladies what are some green flags in a relationship that you THOUGHT were red?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How to get out of a toxic relationship?

I was so crazy in love with my ex boyfriend that I ignored every red flag. We only dated for about 7 months and then he decided he didn't want to date me anymore out of the blue. Fast forward three months, we have been in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

What are some ridiculously RED flags in a relationship?

ariadneR

Guru Age: 47

Relationships

Is this a huge red flag?

My boyfriend is friends with all his exes. I’m fine with that, however, it seems like his ONLY friends are his exes. He has maybe 2 other friends that aren’t. He doesn’t have a group of friends, he just has one on one...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

I am having trouble ending it with my ex?

My ex dumped me 3 months ago because he said he didn't want to date anymore. During our relationship I was always worried he would end it because he wasn't very cuddly or giving to me... For some reason, I am still deeply...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is it right for a friend to judge your relationship if they've never met the guy?

My friend said some really nasty things about how she perceives the guy I'm seeing to view me. She said he thinks zero of me, and that I am just a cheap lay lay him and he'll start seeing someone else because I'm a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Do you think I stand a chance with her if she's never had a relationship before?

I recently met a girl and we've been talking for a couple of months now. Yesterday we were talking on the phone and I found out she has never been in a relationship before and she's 19. I was pretty shocked considering...

Griffin_mxx

Xper 4 Age: 24

Relationships

Is it a Red Flag if you Have Not had a Relationship since High School? A Cautionary Tale of Believing Old Tropes.

Thanks to @Justneedtokno for inspiring the telling of this true story. You can visit her question here: Is it a Red Flag 🚩 if a woman has not been in a real relationship since high school or college? Here is the story...

Floppy2112

Xper 7 Age: 52

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Relationships

Is it a Red Flag 🚩 if a woman has not been in a real relationship since high school or college?

Trust not that I don’t want one. I’m not even sure how to be in one really. I think the thing that gets me is the whole vulnerability part of it all trying to trust someone when you know a lot of situations where...

Justneedtokno

Guru Age: 31

Guy's Behavior

Can't figure out what to do with this guy?

This guy is a popular guy with many friends, though he had some behaviours of keeping girls hopeful that he is single (even though he is going out for movies). He just told me that he already has a boyfriend across the...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

What Are A Few Red Flags When It Comes To Relationships?

So apparently there's this trend going around dealing with red flags. I'm lowkey starting to get annoyed by all the red flags showing up everywhere even though some are funny and very accurate. But for the sake of...

Ash525

Xper 5 Age: 24

Dating

Messaged a girl on Facebook and she says I'm doing a great job so far?

This is like a red flag to me honestly. We chatted on messenger for like 3 hrs. She takes a while to respond back. You'll hear her typing and I guess she changes what she says 5 times before she finally sends the message....

red324

Guru Age: 37

Dating

Do you guys think my boyfriend has some sort of mental issues or narcissistic disorder tendencies?

Hi y'all, when I first met my boyfriend he showered me w/ excessive attention (calling/texting me 24/7, spending all his time w me staying up until 4 am days in a row despite having to get up for work the next day) and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Is this a red flag?

I was sitting with my partner and looking through his Facebook. He saw a notification from me and clicked it. Then one from another girl on his friends list (I don't know who she is) but didn't click it. Then clicked the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Should I reconsider my relationship if his own mother is warning me about him?

I've been noticing a couple signs and my parents don't like him. This surprised me because they aren't judgmental people nor the type to gossip about others. They voiced their concern once (they hate repeating things),...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

If a guy has a history of a lot of casual sex... is that a red flag for him not being good boyfriend/husband material?

Like say while he’s single he just had a lifestyle where he hooked up with random girls as often as he’d want to, or could is more like it. Then he meets someone he likes and wants to be exclusive. Is his history of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Do you think I ruined a relationship with a good man or that I made a mistake?

I was dating a friend of 10 years who had an idea that you don’t meet the perfect person to be in a relationship with, you create the perfect relationship. It sounds nice in paper. But everytime I would tell him that I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why would a man willingly wait for a woman?

Here is some context. I met this guy a few months ago. I went on one date with him, but I didn’t pursue him because I saw some red flags I didn’t like. For example, he goes out drinking a lot, and he posts a lot of girls...

PiinkFalls

Xper 4 Age: 26