What are some ridiculously RED flags in a relationship?

[ariadneR]

[nonratracereality]

The red flags are simple if you are in tune to yourself and the high standards you've established for yourself. If you do not have have the tenacity, maturity, intelligence and responsibility that goes not only with decision making but also your gutt feeling then you will be blind and prone to meeting people who fall below your standards and will undermine your best efforts for a relationship that should be healthy, safe and aware. If you're over 18 and do not know these telltale signs then you will be prone to relationship after relationship failures. If you have to keep asking these questions then you have not mastered human behavior.

[Anonymous]

Wife always talking on the phone when she is with you. Wife worried about her family in Colombia more than she worries about her family with you. Wife always on the computer on face book. Wife has too many men friends. Wife tells husband " I don't care if you have to sell drugs to make money for us" , does not care where money comes from, just so she has it. Wife has secret bank account. Wife lies to husband about making extra money at a job helping her sister, she says she did not get paid and she did. Wife says " When something gets too difficult, I just skip it and move on" marriages are difficult and take a lot of work and commitment. Wife get 4 speeding tickets in 2 years driving home, she gabbs on the phone all the time and does pay attention to her speed, then she lies about getting the tickets.

[FilmGuy93]

If they say anything along the lines of "I'm not like other girls/guys."

If their ex just happens to move back in town.

If they say anything along the lines of "don't you trust me?"

If every problem is someone else's fault.

[admles]

Someone demanding access to your social media accounts, your phone, all your passwords etc.

It just SCREAMS insecure, unstrusting, and that said person is most likely doing something dodgy on the side, and so they immediately expect you are too.

[bamesjond0069]

If she has a slutty past or is fat. Both are signs of serious relationship ending personality flaws. Huge red flags.

[Rudon00]

Low esteem.
Too needy.
Selfish.
Unresolve forgivness.
EmotionalLy unstable.
Unequally yoke.
Just to name a few

[Wise4myage]

Controlling and manipulation.

[WowwGirl]

Barrowing money, not having savings, nosey

[LegendaryIcon]

Anything you don't feel right in your gut

[noohair]

He puts his family over you.

[roy_ricky09]

Lies

[In_Trance]

Contact with an ex