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I have met people who know they will marry without even having met anyone they want to marry... Which i am surprised by.

I wonder, would anyone just marry regardless of their feelings? (Kind of like you know you will go to university before knowing which, and you can end up going to one you do not want.)

I guess its not that out there, I mean arranged marriages are basically that way. Though its different if you had loved and wanted to marry for love, and end up with like or tolerate.

I suppose all or most of the people who did not marry COULD have, just not necessarily anyone they want.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts :-)

Personally, I'm a person who lets bygones be bygones. Till now even if someone has very deeply offended me, they have never inspired feeling of revenge within me.

But one of my ex-friend used to talk about how he was wronged and he would give me explicit details on how he'd like to take his revenge from the person who wronged him.

Although I never told him, this bothered me somewhere. I thought it propelled negativity and wished he would let go. But maybe enacting revenge could give him closure and put his mind at peace, as he was consumed by this intense desire to get even.

This was a bit scary for me because it made me wonder : If my friend is capable of such thoughts towards someone else, how can I trust that someday it won't be me he wants to seek revenge on? (If according to him an action of mine should result in revenge)

Therefore after sharing friendship with him, I've realized I'm less inclined to trust someone who desires revenge. Because people don't treat you differently from how they treat others.

So,

― Have you ever been bothered by your friend's desire for revenge?

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Side Note :
Although I've included poll options I'd like it if you guys shared your opinions too! :)