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Be warned this is quite a lengthy story.

So, I was an apprentice this year. The company I was initially at was really bad and I was being taken for granted and worked to the bone. I decided enough was enough and left, but I had to find a new company to complete the remainder of my apprenticeship. I've just handed in my notice because I'm now complete and the company was horrible.

My friend got me the job. It is an apprenticeship college, so they understood my viewpoint and background. I was hired to do marketing and admin but basically the managing director (small company) is a very spoilt woman with bad managing skills and provided useless feedback, unrealistic deadlines and signs of complete control. I handed in my notice and today she called me into her office and said "putting aside the working late, shit pay and self centred bitch of a boss, have you enjoyed it here?". Obviously I was a bit gobsmacked and she said "be careful what you put on facebook". Firstly I don't have her on my facebook, and secondly I am well aware of social media postings. And then the penny dropped. The mutual friend who I've known 8 years. I private messaged him that and only him that.

Here's where it gets interesting. The MD has just got engaged (she told her finacee not to even bother unless the ring cost £10,000 or more) but has a huge soft spot for my friend. If he has been working in the city, she will leave home to collect him from the station 11pm at night and drive him home. One Sunday, she drove him all the way to the city to his hotel, 4 hours there, 4 hours back. She had no reason to be there. She goes through all of the work computers and checks our emails and has requested to be able to see everyone's computers and documents without their consent.

So it's obvious my friend is a little snake or she is going through his personal phone. But, everyone has the feeling something more is at play here. Do you think they are having an affair? And if they are, should I tell her future husband?

Okay, so here's what I need help with. When I was a teen I was forced into marriage. At the age of 22 I walked out. I am now in a new relationship with someone I have known for 10 years, and we've been dating for a few months now. In my marriage I suffered a lot of abuse, which is why I left and because I never wanted to marry him. My soon to be ex-husband (we're separated) does help from time to time, but he also threatens to make it harder if I don't do what he wants. I invited my boyfriend to come live with me and we both have made certain sacrifices to make that happen. He lived in another state before and now he's here with me. Things haven't gone as planned so far so we're both very frustrated, probably even confused, and we're both hurt (definitely me). I understand why he's upset, hell so am I, but it's only been 2 weeks and he's already ready to give up. We both have said hurtful things to each other and acted petty, but I still would like for it to work. I'm just torn because at the same time, I don't want to make it work with someone who doesn't want to stand by me in difficult moments. Is that selfish? I have spent a lot of money that I don't have trying to make something possible, including my energy. I feel as though if he would give it a little more time that it would get better (as things actually are, slowly but surely), but he said he wants to leave. He told me he doesn't want to break up but that he wants to leave and come back when things are easier and better. Thing is he also told me that in his past he has used women for housing and living amongst other things. Since I know him, I didn't think he would actually do that to me and I still don't, but he "bounces". Should I be afraid of that? I told him if he leaves, he can't come back and that I don't want to date him nor talk to him. I'm just so hurt that he is really giving up at 2 weeks in. Am I being selfish? I'm booking his ticket because at the same time I'm not begging anyone and damn sure not about