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Search Results: being guarded
Do guys care if the girl they’re seeing is completely independent?
How can I become completely and fully independent? I’m 22 and still live at home and depend on my mom. I’m applying to a program I want to get into this January. I’ve worked on and off. I don’t like college but I feel...
Anonymous
(30-35) The Quarter Life Crisis!
At the age of 25, I’ve come to realise that there is an aspect of life that nobody warns you about. I don’t think any adult as I was growing up ever mentioned their 20s as being a time of horror or confusion. We always...
How can I make my boyfriend happy?
I am an extremely insecure and anxious person, always have been and still am to this day now, its especially worse since this relationship i have been in for a year and a half due to my first ex boyfriend manipulated me...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you think it was weird of me?
Yesterday a guy I work with stopped to ask me where a pair of boots belonged so I showed him. He started talking to me about this movie he saw where there was a scene that had people putting boots on their head, and went...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do you reject someone?
I confessed to my friend that I liked him, and it seemed to have caught him off guard quite a bit. The first time I brought it up I didn't expect to hear anything back so I told him to forget about it and I nervously left...
Anonymous
(25-29) What do you do with a girl that makes it obvious she likes you but won't lower her guard and let you into her heart?
I've already tried giving her time. It's been like 10 months. She doesn't want to stop being my friend (I've tried a couple times) but she won't get closer to me. Basically I've fallen in love with her and I know she...
ra6282
Xper 5 Age: 44 Red Flags From My Last Relationship, Part Two
This is a late follow up to the my take I posted above. Another user, @errorgoodnameunfound inspired me to make another. My last relationship ended about 6 months ago. Now that I've healed a lot better, I revisited things...
1truekhaleesi
Editor Age: 29 A black sheep in a den of white wolves
I was tired of those upscale so-called popular girls calling me out. They needed a target and being goth was an easy one. I needed to find a way, I needed to find a way to get them from the inside. I thought, why not be...
Jjpayne
Editor Age: 42 Lesser Known Heroes/of WW1 and WW2 - In Honor of November 11th
When it comes to World War 1 and World War 2 knowledge, many people know of such battles as The Somme and Battle of the Bulge because of its horrific death tolls or because of being taught about it in school classes. In...
InTimoreDei
Yoda Age: 40 Whats wrong with me?
I was married to a horrible man who abused me in everyway for 12 years. Finally got the courage to leave him. Later i met a guy who made me believe that love didn't have to hurt. He gave me hope and love that i have never...
Anonymous
(36-45) Letting my brother use my account for a question about girls?
Ok so at basketball practice me and my teammates were doing practice at our rec league court. Soon the Court next to us was the girl's rec team ( I knew some of them since like 2nd grade.) the thing is the near the end of...
Anonymous
(25-29) Playing Hard to Get.
Modern women have re-defined ‘hard to get’ to mean: act uninterested. But the biggest mistake girls make in dating is not showing enough interest. “huh? Whet the hell are you telling us?” Keep your pants on men. Ladies,...
Viperkiss
Yoda Age: 41 Lost apartment to foreclosure 4 months ago and things are not getting better. what should I do?
So Pretty much my landlord stop paying her mortgage on the house we were renting which left us with no place to go. My job fired me since i couldnt come to work because my landlord was harassing my pregant girlfriend to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do people keep their guards up when around others, being wary, possibly pessimistic or cynical of other's intentions, from their own experiences?
Seeing most relationships end either on a good note or a bad one, or when seeing your parents fight to the point where it might or might not escalate to violence has driven me to a point where I just automatically hate...
OptimusPrime2017
Xper 5 Age: 26 Videogame depicts players as Nazi Guards who slaughter prisoners. Thoughts?
So this game called "Cost of Freedom" is being developed by a Ukrainian company called Alien Games and has sparked outrage in Poland. It is being investigated by Poland's Institute of National Remembrance and by the...
ciitruskiwi
Guru Age: 36 Why can't I just get over him already?
I was dating a guy for few months and I fell in love with him. After so many years of relationship failures, after I lost all hope - I met him. A soulmate. We clicked instantly and it was magical. It felt real and mature...
Anonymous
(36-45) Getting over a massive crush?
So earlier this year I confessed to my crush, a cute mormon girl who I would see once a month at stake activities. She said no, but like she was with everything else, she was really nice about it and did everything she...
BlueberryFrick
Xper 4 Age: 25 Girls, Why does my female friend act this way towards me?
So i have this female friend that has a boyfriend and we are really good friends and she was kissing on my cheeks just being friendly i guess but i told her to stop cause she was getting me uncomfortable. One day she...
Lifetaken
Xper 4 Age: 28 Guy at work randomly started talking to me?
Hi everyone first post here. There is a guy where I work, I know nothing about him and never seen him much, but he randomly started talking to me. So here is what happened so far: There was one day when I was...
Anonymous
(30-35) Would you say someone who has won a few sloppy fights & a few blindsided as someone with potential to become a fighter?
when I was around 12 I've won most of my fights against a few neighborhood kids & even though we were terrible I got the upper hand & a caught a few haters off guard with fast but sloppy jabs being a few feet away by the...
Anonymous
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