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Long story short: my boyfriend and I were together for just over a year, we’ve both been there for each other to doctors appointments, he helped me lose weight and encouraged me to get my drivers license and was always cooking for me... always very affectionate as well... his parents really love me as well - especially his mom... she was even inviting me over for the holidays and teaching me about Judaism and baking with me and driving places with me... my boyfriend and I were also living together at his parents house for 5 whole months as well and everyday I was visiting him at the hospital when he ha surgery and he was ther for me when I had a minor surgery as well... he was in jail for 3 months cuz he drive with an invalid drivers license and I waited for him and everyday he was calling me and his mom and telling. Me that he loves me and wants a future with me and was making future plans with me... also was encouraging me to spend time with his family... now when he retired back, we had some miss understandings and a fight and we took a break.. he met this aggressive bitchy goth chic who always fights him and abuses him... he was begging me to come back for 2 whole weeks and even gave me a mermaid necklace cuz he knows I love the little mermaid...
he always hugs me and kisses me in his sleep and whispers that he loves me so much and sometimes even holds my hand in his sleep... but that other abusive woman is still around and he tells me he doesn’t love her at all and that I have better qualities than her... his mom even tells him that she prefers me over the other woman and his dad can’t stand her either... his parents tell him I’m more suitable for him as well... this other woman bruised him and beat him up as well...

he someotimes gets into bad/sad moods when I leave his place... does he still love me and seem to regret the break we took?

My boyfriend is 19 and I'm 25. He was abused heavily by his family (for example, his father won't let him call him dad, he has to call him Sir or Mr. Roberts and his mom was an violent alcoholic) so I understand his habits and pet peeves. Like he has to have a night light because he's afraid of the dark and he's OCD about things being neat and straight (because his father used to beat him if he messed up something in their house). He is still a great boyfriend. Anyway, I've started breastfeeding for my niece (I used lactation pills becuase my sister can't breastfeed because she's on medication) and he asked if he could breastfeed from me. I know people do it with their spouses/partners but I'm not so sure about it myself, mostly because of the mental background he has because he wasn't nurtured. I don't want him to start seeing me as a motherly figure rather than a girlfriend. Would you do this?