On the other hand, he'll compliment me tons, telling me I'm beautiful, gorgeous, cute, adorable, pretty, hot, sexy. I'll send him selfies and he compliments me on all of them. Or when he sees my body, he'll compliment me like crazy.
He also won't add me as a friend on Facebook and hasn't told anyone he knows about him and I.
One other thing that kind of hurt me was one day at work, he and his coworkers were talking about vegans and that they're crazy. I'm vegan and he knows that. He's not vegan though. Instead of defending me or saying something positive about the lifestyle or me (as I'm the only vegan he knows), he said something along the lines of "I know a crazy vegan too".
So I'm unsure about what to do because I have feelings for him but I feel what he has done and is doing when it comes to the insults may be abuse. Should I be concerned? What do I do?
TL;DR: My boyfriend of 2 months frequently insults me but says he's joking every time but on the other hand, he'll give me tons of compliments. I'm unsure of what to do because I have feelings for him but it seems like his constant insulting may be abusive.
Should I be concerned? What do I do?
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