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I am very confused about this boy who I am seeing, we have been seeing each other for six months. I am moving to china in September without him which he only found out two months ago , and we started out as friends with benefits. When I told him I wanted more he started acting like my boyfriend. He said he was considering moving to china with me and he starts talking about where both of us are going to move when we graduate he said he’s either moving to china or my home town. Then I called it off telling hime how hurt I am as I can’t see him as often due to his busy schedule but then got back together , I did this multiple times. Couple of days later he starts acting distant, he's tell me this is because he knows it will have to end as I’m going to China, He then starts to flakes on plans. One night he says he doesn’t want a relationship with me and wants to stop seeing me as it’s not fair on me as I want to see him more. The same night 10 mins later he decides he still wants to see me as he would miss me and he would regret it. After that he starts opening up to me telling me about his uncle dying , his insomnia and his insecurities, But also says we can’t see each other us much. His friends tell him they don’t like me but he doesn’t listen to them. Last night we decided to end it he comes round my house crying and I tell him I need to tell him something important ( that I love him) and he says don’t say it I know what your going to say, he already knew I was going to say I love u without me having to say it , but he doesn’t say he loves me back. He said he wants to end it as it’s not fair on me as I want a relationship and he doesn’t and he wants me to be happy. He tells me that seeing me wasn’t about the sex and he actually liked me but he lost interest, and it would have to end anyway. We decide on the same night to continue to see each other but in two weeks time as he says feelings will die down which is a good thing. For some reason he can’t end it and neithe

Ok so I've been talking to this guy, I thought as friends but he thought otherwise. We have been taking for about 4-5months and about a month ago he asked me out. I was put on the spot and about pissed my self so I said yes. Keep in mind, we live about 1hour and 30min away from each other. he's nice and takes things slow for me. I've got a rough past, he doesn't know the story but I'm throwing hints at him when I get uncomfortable. I dont have any confidence in myself at all, so how can I keep a stable relationship with someone? Dont get me wrong the boy is nice but he doesn't complement me, doesn't show much care, I told him my dad got hurt so I couldn't hang out that day and he got upset, when we do hang out he only wants to play video games, ONLY video games. Like I wouldn't mind going to the park and hanging out, or watch a movie at the house. He makes me go down to him, he has never came down to my house. I admit I'm not pretty, I'm bigger and thicker, your girls got some junk in the trunk, so i can't be picky when it comes to guys. My last boyfriend cheated on me and I apologize, yep, I apologize for not being good enough. I'm so fucked up😂 The boy makes fat jokes, tells my sister she has cake face, and has no gentleman manners. We walked to walmart to get drinks and he walked way in front of me, on the right side of me, didn't open any doors, and didn't walk me out of his house when it was time to leave. Oh yeah we have only been on one date... he is joining the navy so I love that and he is in the recruiters at the moment and I totally respect that. But he dead ass asked are you going to date me in 6 mouths... my first thought was I dont even know what's for dinner. Anyways I was going to talk to him about just being friends but I dont want to hurt him, that's the very least thing I wanna do.

So today my boyfriend finished our relationship because his Chinese family told him they are against him dating me and that he would no longer be family of he keeps seeing me and that it’s for his own good. They were against it because i am Eastern European and a single mom. But i am quite a successful, i have a good job and i am still studying. My guy just gave up like that. I told him we could’ve proved his family that we are going to be happy and successful together.
So I wonder if you would be willing to not go against but to prove your parents different or would you just give up like my boyfriend did?

Your opinions will really be appreciated.