In the past I’ve written about relationships between black men and white women and how I support them and think they’re beautiful, and I’ve stood up for both black men and white women when they get criticized for wanting each other - and I myself have been hated for liking white women, but my viewpoint still doesn’t change.
This time I did want to write an honest Take on things I do dislike about white women. Although I might like them, they’re still not perfect and I do have some issues with how many can be that doesn’t sit well with me. There will of course be people who want to call this Take “racist” or “generalizations” and that’s fine, it doesn’t really matter. Most mature and intelligent people would know that while I’m classifying white females in this Take it doesn’t necessarily say every single one is like what I’m going to talk about, but explains that these things are what I think are more likely/more common among white females than other females.
I’ve been hated by black women - some black men - and white men for liking or approving of white women in many areas and noting things I like about them, and I’ve also been hated by white men and even some white women for stating where I do disapprove of them, and it's all okay. You will never be able to please every group. It is what it is. But I’m not going to stop keeping it real.
They tend to be rudest to customer service workers…
In my last Take Things I've Learned About Females Throughout My Life, Vol.2 I mentioned how women have a tendency to be the worst towards store associates and customer service employees, and it really is something I look down on and despise, not just because I myself have once been an employee of that type before, but because it is a terribly entitled mindset. And of most female customers/patrons it seems to be that white women are often the worst, especially if they are wealthy. Whether they realize it or not, they still do have a subconscious attitude of white entitlement and white privelage to think they can behave however they want towards the people who are serving them, and it is extremely distasteful to me.
One of the rudest things white female patrons have done - particularly older ones - is when they ask you where something is in a store and you're not sure because you don't work in that department, and they cut you off with, "You work here and you don't know? Okay thanks," and they're already walking away.
I honestly have to say I think it’s absolutely pathetic and insecure of so many feminists to be white women. White females have had more advancement and favor than any other demographic of females, and much less oppression to boot. While technically blacks were given the right to vote first after the Civil War, white women resented that and have long been able to vote in peace while blacks were still threatened out of doing it. Also throughout the history of the United States government, more white women have held seats in Congress than any other ‘minority’ or oppressed group. More white women than blacks and other groups have also made it to the top in businesses becoming presidents and CEOs. Even down to crime white females get off the hook much more than other groups and are wrongly convicted of crimes or brutalized by police at lower rates.
So I don’t understand why it is that they feel the greatest need to shout about oppression and suppression of women when they’ve faced the least of it yet think there’s still “a long way to go.” And no, they don’t care about black, Hispanic, or native American women’s needs for advancement either.
Are often more arrogant about their looks or beauty…
I’m at a point in my life now where super beautiful, attractive women just don’t mean a lot to me anymore. Though being honest, I am in a relationship with a beautiful Vietnamese woman, but her beauty is not what made me interested in her. For the most part I just don’t worship gorgeous women like most men do because I don’t like their behaviors and mindsets. And this includes a lot of super attractive white women. And while it may seem harsh, they are often some of the worst snakes of the female species.
White women know that the world glorifies them and puts down dark skin and non-white features, and the ones who are very, very attractive figure they can act however they want and do whatever they want and that it’s everyone else who is at their mercy while they have nothing at stake. Many of them don’t care about what’s right or wrong, who they may hurt, if they act like bitches, etc. The way they see it is that they’re good-looking, can have sex any time they think they want, and that the world puts them at high value. Sometimes they have moments of being nice or respectful or whatever, but deep down a lot of them have no regard for anyone but themselves and their physical worth.
Talking/acting black just because you like black people or have a black boyfriend…
Hey, white chicks. I’m flattered that you might like us black men or like our community, but you don’t have to talk black just because of that or because you’re in a relationship with a black man. It drives me crazy. Just be your own white self. That doesn’t have to change because you’re in love with black men or black people.
I’ve even strangely noticed the way some white women will talk normal with me because they can tell I’m not urban or “hood,” yet I’ve observed when they interact with other blacks they think are hood, then they’ll start using ebonics and black-like tones when they talk to them, not realizing how fake and offensive it can be.
Always thinking someone is hitting on them or trying to assault them…
If it’s one thing I absolutely cannot stand about white females it’s how a lot of them think they’re being hit on or that some guy is trying to victimize or assault them. It is one of the most simple-minded paranoid presumptions to exist, and actually even egotistical to think you're that desirable to presume some guy is always trying to get frisky or inappropriate with you. And to make it worse they often believe black men are the ones preying on them or will prey on them.
I even get sick of hearing white females’ damsel-in-distress sob stories about what it’s like to be a female on the streets in the inner city being cat called or approached by black men. Don’t get me wrong, it’s unfortunate. But when it’s white men on the streets making catcalls, white women may not like it, but psychologically they aren’t raising white men to the level of being a terrorist threat like they do with black men, and they know it.
As if it isn't already bad enough that we've seen numerous cases of white women wanting to call the police on innocent black men, it seems to be that quite a few white females still have the old Southern prejudiced train of thought that the black man is a big sexual threat, when white men actually rape more than black men.
The ones who dislike black men…
To be fair, I get it that some people “prefer their own” for dating and relationships, but white women who are okay with all other races of men BUT black men do have a prejudiced issue. They’re basically saying they either don’t like dark skin and black features, or that they really think black men are the lowest and most inferior of the male species. That is pretty much what it comes down to.
And the ones who actually did used to date black men but won’t anymore because of “bad experiences” are pathetic. So they dated or slept with 2 or 3 black guys, it didn’t go well, and now they’re ready to quit on them, but these white women will continue to date or sleep with asshole after asshole who is white or even Spanish, and that’s okay with them. But because a few black men disappointed them, they’re now ready to put them on the reject list. Sorry, I have no respect for those women.
And as I’ve also talked about on GaG before, I feel that white females and other people giving their “preference” arguments is bullshit. So you want your “preference” for white guys to be respected, but you look down on women who prefer black men, and if black men themselves prefer white women then you label them as putting you on a pedestal. So are Spanish, Asian, and your own white guys who only prefer white women putting you on a pedestal too? Or does it just bother you when it’s black men who prefer you? Also, is it putting white guys on a pedestal too when you prefer them? Why is it that a black man's "preference" for white is wrong and labelled as putting you on high, but your "preference" for only white is right?
The only person who believes your bullshit is you and others who think like you.
They tend to be more focused on looks and status…
If it’s one thing I’ve definitely noticed it’s that white women are more often the ones to zero in on looks and status in men, especially priveleged or very wealthy white women. And they often are the types to find the cliche celebrity-looking male image to be attractive - even in black men if they like them too. One of the things that makes me cringe is how I’ve seen some white women on dating sites point out very specific Wants in a man like him needing to have or not have a beard, needing “perfect teeth,” muscles, etc. It’s something about that “perfect teeth” thing with white women that feels very anal to me and gives me chills. I mean, I myself wouldn’t want to date somebody with half a mouth full of teeth but a woman who’s teeth are not “perfect” is not a deal breaker for me.
I do have to say that throughout my life I’ve noticed that black women and Latinas more often will like you as a person if they’re really into you. They didn’t care if I didn’t have a car, hadn’t been to college, or was working a part-time job. The way they saw it was that as long as I had a job and was hard-working, could make them feel good when I interacted with them, was real about things, and had good intentions, they were cool with that. I must say that “minority” women do tend to be more humble and down-to-earth in their attraction to men. Even now in my relationship, my sweetheart came from money, is very beautiful even though she doesn’t think so, but she has no care about what I came from or me being black or anything like that. She likes me for me and is a woman with a very humble spirit who looks at the person and not their job or what they have.
But white females are the demographic I think cares the most about looks and status in men, which is rooted in the Ego: you think you deserve men of great appearance or worth even if you don’t have it, or you do have it too and can’t think beyond it to see value in other kinds of men.
White women should think about themselves...
And no less or no differently than how we've called out white men on their own mindsets and actions. As I said in the beginning, I'm fine with white females but they're still not perfect and have their own evils that at times I feel like can be worse than white men.
We as a society get so caught up in glorifying the white female and using her as a symbol of beauty and power that we almost see her as a perfect deity, to the point where women of other races are trying to look like her, talk like her, eat like her, and aspire to be the 'basic bitch' image of white female culture. At the end of the day, white women - like everybody else - are nowhere near being a deity.