5 Things I Hate About Women

[Anonymous]

I want to start out by out by saying, I don’t hate women. I love women, but they have imperfections. Most of this comes from things I noticed from women in my family, but some of it is from women I met.

Mind games

You know how women always say that all men are idiots? Guess what, it’s true. Stop playing mind games, don’t make us guess what you’re thinking and hassle us for not getting your hints. Can it really be that hard to comprehend that men don’t think complex as you do?

Fake compliments

Don’t say something you don’t mean to cheer us up. Sometimes constructive criticism or telling someone something they simply need to hear is a good thing. Don’t tell me things like “have you been losing weight” when I obviously know I’m not losing weight

Getting grossed out to easily

Seriously it’s like every woman that didn’t grow up with brothers is grossed out by everything men do. Why do men have to act carefully when we are around women?

Bringing up things that we did a long time ago then throwing it in our face.

People change and learn from their mistakes don’t bring up things from a long time ago when you had your chance to yell at us about it. Its ridicules and completely hypocritical if men did that women would lose their sh*t every single time.

Saying its fine when it’s not fine

People learn from their mistakes, so not telling someone they’re doing something wrong is biting yourself in your own ass (this also applies to white women). Let us learn what we are doing that’s bothering you, so we can stop doing it and it will make both happier.

[sexyfart]

1.) criticize them and they call you a misogynist rather than owning up to their faults.
2.) they use you WITH sex, and then try to accuse you of using them FOR sex, sex that you're not actually even having, merely hopefully having sometime in the future but that probably wouldn't be all that great because they would complain during that too
3.) they're always completely in denial. always. and they use that denial to do unspeakably self centered things that no normal person could ever look at themselves in the mirror and live with. the thing is, and i'm noticing this more and more, the denial preceeds it.
4.) They are openly ok with and even proud of being bitches and prudes, they think they can just change the definition of whore and not be one, and they constantly accuse people of slut shaming them when they're criticized for being whores or just general immoral or hoeish behavior, even though an honest to god slut would honestly be a breath of fresh air in this whores world.
5.) They just generally treat men like garbage but demand respect and appreciation based solely on their gender and make no attempt to improve or concede or do anything that would ever bring pleasure to another human being unless it profits them or their ego.

[Spermdumster666]

When girls talk about how wrong slut shaming is and thrn call every girl they hate a slut.

[ManOnFire]

Good one.

[Joc4Position]

Whoa. Your name XD

[Girly1710]

@Joc4Position Yeah, they spelled dumpster wrong. What a dumb-ster.

I'm sorry if that's mean, but I like word play.

[Joc4Position]

@Girly1710 😂

[Spermdumster666]

@Joc4Position the proper spelling was taken.

[Joc4Position]

@Girly1710 ...

[Girly1710]

@Joc4Position hahahhahaha oh I'm sorry! But that worries me. Why are so many people willingly calling themselves sperm dumpsters? Heaven help us.

[Joc4Position]

@Girly1710 Oh no I wanted you to see what she said. She @ me but I felt like it was more towards you.

[Girly1710]

@Joc4Position dang it, I did it too. That was supposed to be to gool ol' sperm dumpster number who knows what, but I tagged you.

[brain5000]

I enjoyed this take. There is much truth to it, but some of your arguments have holes.

1) Mind games - This is a double standard. Everyone plays mind games, and to get a woman a man pretty much has to play mind games. The best we can hope for is to be in a relationship where the mind games eventually diminish.

2) Fake compliments - Men do this, but IMHO women do it A LOT MORE. They are supportive of one another and the men they admire sometimes to the point of creepy. Fake compliments can be harmful. They can reinforce a bad situation over time and keep someone from constructive change when that change would improve them and their lives. Good call.

3) Getting grossed out - It's a valid issue, but one men routinely turn to their advantage. Pardon the expression, but this is a feature and not a bug.

4) Bringing up things from long ago - I do this too.

5) Saying "it's fine" when it is not fine - I usually handle that by saying "I am ready to talk about it whenever you are" and then go read a book. If it is important enough, she'll discuss it. If not, she'll throw it in my face ten years from now. ;)

[Joc4Position]

1. No. It's not that men aren't complex it's that we don't want to be be over-complicating shit with a female. In other words we are more lazy when it comes to that. We are supposed to be relaxed and calm when with her. Not damn working our brains. I'm not putting up with that. That's childish stuff. Us guys gotta give these females who do that ultimatums. Doesn't matter if she gets mad or not.

2. I've seen females do that to each other more than to guys, but yeah it's true. Females are better liars typically than men. Doesn't mean all females or even that most are liars. It just means that when it comes down to it they can sell a lie better than a man typically.

3. Ehh. I have no comment on this one.

4. Bruh. That's the worst one. Females save shit and then wait until an argument and use it. Either that or they'll make up one of the following:

-He beat me (not saying men don't. Some do, and domestic violence isn't a joke)
-He's gay
-His dick is small

5. Yeah. It's amazing that some females want guys to express themselves while they hide how they really feel. I believe in honesty.

[mistixs]

"Getting grossed out to easily
Seriously it’s like every woman that didn’t grow up with brothers is grossed out by everything men do. Why do men have to act carefully when we are around women?"

Are you kidding me? Men proudly burp, fart, etc around women & we're the ones who have to put up with it. "Boyys will be boys." Meanwhile, if we acted the same way, everyone would be appalled and disgusted.

[YumDum]

you exposed a problem what are the solution then?
killing all women? all men turn gay?
none is perfect, there are different type of women
you didn't yet meet the person that make you feel complete
as it goes for men, there are different type.
I'm speaking for myself and all you had mentionned above doesn't match with me
I'm not grossed with guys how they live since I grew with my cousins, I don't bring things up since I move on if I see that i can't move on I won't bother with that person that's all, and when I'm not fine I complain about what's wrong with me, the wrong thign with me, that I'm a stubborn person who hates to be judged, i hate listening to nonsense but i let that person know immedialty that he better stops talking non-sense and give him/her the reason why... i like simple thing and simple life clear things just like the water of the sea no games no tricks.

[EllieInTheDark]

i hate these thigns too though I admit, I do sometimes say its fine when its not because i can't explain why I dont feel good. However If I compliment someone I actually mean it because I usually just don't say anything to people. Liek if someone looks shit i'll say hey that colour doesn't exactly suit you try a different one but if you like woah I will say truthfully damn you look really good. etc. I dont get grossed out easily either i mean My boyfriend he burped in my face and i could tast the subway we ate earlier, a little weird but meh and he have burping things. I burp like a man, makes me sound crude. And Sometimes I don't say things straight cause extremely awkward ther times I can straight up say things

[the_rake]

mind games
yeah they do do this and I can play mind games right back but, uh, generally speaking it's better to win the war than a load of battles.

fake compliments
only annoying when they are detected too easily but if you just say "oh well, thanks, I guess" then this deflects the patronising niceness.

getting grossed out too easily
yeah, definitely something a lot of girls do, e. g. refusing to step over a puddle but just edging over it with fake fear as if waiting for some mythical white knight to appear from nowhere with a coat for them to step on.

bringing up things we did a long time ago
actually I'm kinda bad at this one myself...:S

saying it's fine when it's not fine
haha I do this but then no point telling people what your problems are when (a) you know they can't help you and (b) you're not really in the mood for divulging. sometimes saying you're fine makes you feel a bit better - positive psychology, it works!

[Anonymous]

Things I hate about women:

1. Hot and cold BS

2. Pretending your interested to get attention when you have no interest in relationship what so ever and just wanted validation.

3. The shit talking about people behind their back and starting nasty rumors

4. The "I want to take things slow and get to know you" for some guys but your sucking off Chad thundercock in 5 minutes.

5. The pretending you don't do hookups and using men's money down on dates/free meals who you have no intentions of having sex with.

6. The indirect answers

7. The constant lying about personality is important and how your less shallow than men.

[Opinion Owner]

8. Taking long while to text back.

9. Never texting back to guy's responses but feel your entitled to get a text within 5 minutes when you want something from the guy.

10. Princess complex

11. Treating guys like shit/asexual friends throughout your 20's. Fucking attractive/popular guys then finally giving these guys a chance when your old and fat and play it off that it's because you just became mature.

12. Feminism

[UtopianLobotomy]

13. Feel like they must initiate sex all of the time, and if they don't then they are being "easy" or "used".

14. Keeps you as a friend, finds out your getting some, gets jealous or horny or whatever and decides that since you have a girlfriend it would be such a great time to show you how she really feels and go into a frenzy.

15. Keeping you from your kids (should be number 1) just because she is mad and our courts are literally fucking insane and/or actually have a feminist agenda attached to cultural Marxism which is funded by mega billionaires (in a twist of irony to some here) that will remain on top of society when the enslavement of uber-socialism is in place, keeping kids fatherless is at the epicenter of this and the media along with our justice system are doing a GREAT job!

I lost what number I was on... yeah... that's life

[Shorty1991]

Women aren't mind readers either. People need to be more open with their emotions.
In a nutshell, these are double standards. Men do the same things.

[inneedofaname]

I assume you don't know what a double standard is.
I don't know of any men doing all that shit there that you women do.

[Shorty1991]

@inneedofaname talking to you is like talking to someone with verbal diahorrea. You still don't get my point.
All you do is spout a lot of bias rubbish.
I am not being sexist like you are, I'm sure there are men out there who would agree with me when I say it works both ways. I'm not directing this at other men, but I'm getting at you. A bit like you don't want to accept reality, and if you knew how to solve this problem. You wouldn't be on here being hypocritical andIl moaning about it. I think that you are just attention seeking like some others on this site. Because I can empathize with both genders I think I would deal with those situations better than you. Since I tend not to dwell too much on the past, if something gets me down I'm resilient enough to bounce back again and get on with my life. If I had a partner like this I would either tolerate his behaviour because I love him. Or I would if it really bothered me that much. I would just say, it's not working and end it.

[Mooochi]

I act nothing like this, I don't do the stupid mind games. However, I do get grossed out if he does something nasty. If he purposely burps or fart in my face, yeah, I will be grossed out, and I will be pissed off. I don't care if he's my boyfriend or husband, don't fucking fart or burp in my face. Would you appreciate someone farting or burping in your face? No. So stop bitching about it.

[Jbbhaze449]

Yea men do this too for sure. Fake compliments less, but still something I've seen plenty of guys do in socially awkward situations. Like men never think they're tricking women. I'm pretty sure some people just want to feel like the smarter person, then talk down to others about it. And look like morons in the process. Damnit professor X stop playing with my heart.

[Girl_Scout]

How has this been promoted? Seriously GaG, have a word with yourself.

[ManOnFire]

@Girl_Scout If a girl had've written one hers would've been Featured. Promotion isn't much.

[Girl_Scout]

@ManOnFire And I would have said the same thing. This shit shouldn't be promoted or featured.

[ManOnFire]

@Girl_Scout No. I really don't think you wouldn't have.

[Girl_Scout]

@ManOnFire oh well, I won't lose any sleep over it...

[Girl_Scout]

@ManOnFire and that's a double negative...

[Careless_Whisper]

It's called freedom of speech. No matter how much feminists and the government want to police people's free speech, we will not back down. Such a hard life eh.

[juliaanita]

@Careless_Whisper you are letting your bitterness show again.

[AmongTheApples]

Actually, you're wrong. @ManOnFire did not write a double negative. I won't lose any sleep over it would even be acceptable in formal situations. I won't lose no sleep over it would have been a double negative.

What he wrote is generally true (although he wrote it in a condescending way), but most of it also applies to men. In fact, most men are probably worse about saying everything is fine when it isn't.

[Girl_Scout]

@AmongTheApples I wrote that silly, not him.

"I really don't think you wouldn't have" is what he wrote.

[Girl_Scout]

@Careless_Whisper aww... is it hard being a boy? Poor you, you poor poor thing however do you manage?

[Careless_Whisper]

yawn!!!

[AmongTheApples]

You are correct. I must have associated your correction with him when I skimmed what you wrote and all of the replies that you got. My bad.

[Careless_Whisper]

@juliaanita you are letting your stupidity show again

[Girl_Scout]

@AmongTheApples I know I was correct, but thanks for telling me :P

[AmongTheApples]

Lol fair enough :-D

[Girl_Scout]

@John_Rider you can fuck off too.

[Girl_Scout]

@Todd_Bundy are you actually making all these accounts just to be mean to me? Dude... get a new hobby...

[BertMacklinFBI]

lol what a sad life that boy lives

[Girl_Scout]

@BertMacklinFBI I know right? Not even bothering to put much effort into the insults either... come on man, at least play the game well if you're going to play!

[Cookies_AndMilk]

This is why I'd prefer a guy as a friend over a female any day. Most girls are ridiculously annoying. I can't handle the level of stupidity they possess.

[Shorty1991]

My best friend is a guy. I trust him more than I rust certain people.

[Anonymous]

These are such clichés now, every time I hear it "don't say what you don't mean" "don't take something I said and throw it back at me" "blah blah blah"
Well maybe you shouldn't have said something fucking stupid in the first fucking place. Get some new material dude

[KeepcalmandLARPon]

yeah out of these I have only done the one with using old stuff. But usually it is because it was never resolved and it was bothering me still. I try not to start drama so I'll bottle up things that bother me. I'm not guilty of the others.

[LyssaNicole]

How about instead of posting negative questions, you focus on the positive? People who talk and think positively attract good people and good energy. Just something to think about 😊

[SilenRose]

I've seen guys do this shit as well. Also anyone who is passive aggressive is capable of this.

[inneedofaname]

Wow, 1 out of 100 guys vs. 9 out of 10 girls.

[Shorty1991]

@inneedofaname overexaggerating. com

[inneedofaname]

@Shorty1991 continue living in your own little fanatasy world, girl.

[Shorty1991]

@inneedofaname Lmfao at fantasy world 😂 you really have no idea do you?
I'm pretty sure that if I had a fantasy world people like you spend less time moaning on here and find a way to deal with things like this on your own.

[SilenRose]

@Shorty1991 Lol, I know? @inneedofaname must be suffering from fantasy prone personality (FPP). 😂

[Shorty1991]

Try telling him that, it's like talking to a brick wall. But that's self-righteousness for ye. I could have said something else there but I've had a comment cut out because I was apparently being too antagonistic.

[Shorty1991]

@inneedofaname we're pathetic?, it's you that won't stop moaning.
Is it getting under your skin because I'm not directing my comments at you and not the other men? 😂
Just because you've or your friends have had women with those traits does not mean that you can class us all the same.
I've known some men who are so full of themselves, they would eat themselves if they were chocolate. Men who are easily grossed out, men who tell you they are ok when they aren't, men who openly burp and fart in front of their partners. I tolerate this behaviour because most of my friends are men. I won't fall out with them over something stupid like this.

[Shorty1991]

@inneedofaname * directing comments at you and not the other men.

[SilenRose]

@Shorty1991 Lol, I wish I could up vote this comment ten times! <3

[Shorty1991]

Haha, thanks.
Some people don't understand that if you truly love or care for someone, you'll tolerate their annoying behaviour and their flaws. If it gets to the point where you can't stand it, then discuss it with them. Don't bottle it up and start moaning to everyone else.

[SilenRose]

@Shorty1991 Exactly!

[BossomeGirl]

@inneedofaname

[BossomeGirl]

Omg that was an accident I don't know what happened!

[Prof_Don]

Women with the mental warfare is some vicious ass shit, I have always said that women are more competitive than men!

Men are competitive for sport but there is still an overall brotherhood amongst most men, but women play for keeps!

[AnnVdB]

LOOOL :D
The Im fine thing is correct sometimes; sometimes I just dont want to tell whats going on because I think its better to shut up and have it blow over.
but the rest I dont really relate to.

[AleDeEurope]

I also hate when they say "I'm fine". It's like you're trying to help her, see what's going on, but they push you away with that, and then they get mad cause you believed it xD

[ManOnFire]

Not bad. Get ready for the whiny onslaught of females who are you gonna label you "sexist," "butthurt," or a virgin.

But they'll get over it.