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Hello girls, i was hoping you could help me out. I like this girl. Around a year back i got her number from my office and pinged her. I did not tell her who i was so obviously she was very hostile initially but i kept at it n eventually she started talking. She said we could be friends if it was only friendship i was looking for and nothin else. But i always knew i liked her more than that. But i agreed, if something had to happen it would happen. After that i met her, that was the first time she saw me. I got her some chocolates. Initially she would not ride with me on my bike. But eventually she did. We hung out else i would make a point to visit her just to check on her. We would sit by the pool or in the garden and talk. Gradually she became more comfortable with me. She said she once dated a guy and he said something really bad to her after which she broke up with him. She hasn't moved on since. She said she decided she was never going to date any one. Thats why she would not go to the movies with me because she considered it dating. We went out for dinner and outing though. We had some wonderful time together there was some chemistry. She would always smile and be shy. i had to move to a different country on a work assignment. So i asked her if she wanted to date because i really liked her and wanted to have her in my life. She said the same thing she does not date. I was broken but again i cared for her so i said i will wait. Its been a year since we chat mostly and talk over the phone. Its always great talking to her, its fresh n different. I know she cares for our frindship a lot. She also knows how i feel about her, hell i sent her a 5foot teddy so that she won't get scared at night aftet watching a horror movie. So she knows right. We are closer now. But yet she won't open up completely. She still doesn't want to date any one. She doeznt have any other guy friend asMy question is what is actually stopping her from dating. And should i hang or move on.

OK I'm stuck as the title say and I know it's wrong for my brothers ex girl. She trying to set me up with her sister and we talk text for about 8 months now and every time I set a date up something never falls through for it to happen.
she 26 virgin yes you read that right very insecure and hard to believe in trust with other guys since her dad cheated on her mom took a big impact I guess..
but my brother got a car financed from his ex and long story short she wants it paid off now or for him to finance it himself (shit credit) shitty for him it was agreed for it to be paid off within one year 2500k a month (2010 Audi A4 premium sedan) well work fell short it was signed over under my name without my consent didn't know that can happen stupid ass insurance company well she got ahold of me we been talking keeping in touch because of that reason. After the break up her sis and I have not talked since also.
I told her to just get it dealt with and have my name removed from it well a few payments missed now bank is out for it I have and also she has letters from the bank.. she knows he is a cheater in relationships and is stressed about her credit because of this I said it's both of your falts to do a stupid thing to begin with. We met up to discuss the situation there in as well as I too lol. I told her to leave him be and move on after the car is taken care of.. she agreed I said sorry he's a man whore well majority of men are for me i don't date I just play the field but your sister is a DaVinci Code and is got me thinking about the worthwhile waiting. she laughed and said she's a mommy's girl and thought it was worth a shot for her and is sorry about that to me.. I then told her well to bad you and I went the ones to meet I would of bought you stuft instead of you doing that car crazy she starter laughing more getting closer she lead of and hugged me and said "hunny your the sweetheart I was looking for in my life...