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So I’ve been talking to this guy for the past month. We hang out every single day, spend the night at each other’s places sometimes, we’ve hooked up like 5 times.

Yesterday morning he called me and said he wanted to spend the day together, so we had a breakfast date, jammed in his car, went back to his place, and had some BOMB sex. I had to go to work at 2:30 but he reminded me that we were hanging out at 8 and kissed me goodbye.

Fast forward to 8. I get there, handle of Bacardi, ready to drink for the first time in ages. Long story short, got a little too drunk, to the point where he didn’t think I could drive— I honestly could’ve. I had to be home by 1 because curfew. He made his best friend drive my car and follow me and him in his car to my house.

I’m not sure how this conversation started but during the car ride he told me he didn’t care if I died, and just that he didn’t want me to get pulled over. First of all, what the fuck? I asked him if he meant that, and he said said it again. “I don’t care if you die, I don’t care if anyone dies.” Like who fucking says that? To be fair he did tell me he was feeling really depressed, I asked him what I could do to help him, he said to wait a day and he’ll be fine.

Anyways, after asking him again like what the fuck dude, he said “no, I’d care if you died.” He then proceeded to tell me he has “a lot of love for me.” I feel like he was just telling me things I wanted to hear.

One more thing. We were discussing tinder earlier in the day, and he said he wasn’t about that Tinder life, and I agreed, which is true for me, I don’t have the app. When he let me pick the song on the ride home, he handed me his phone, and Tinder was one of the recommended apps from the drop down list. Also he was talking to some girl named Natalie on there?

Am I overthinking this? Am I overreacting?
To be honest I’m still a little drunk and just overall confused. I’m sure we’ll hang out tonight, but I’m tired of these mixed signals.

Please choose the LONGEST you can wait

What if your partner has a medical problem that made it impossible for you to have sex/make love, would you still want to be with her/him? Why?

🌻 In my case, if ever I have a boyfriend and he has a medical problem which made it impossible for us to make love, I will stick with him. It may sound like in a movie or impossible, but once I'm in love, I love truly and deeply. And believe it or not, there are still genuine and stick-to-one kind of people. I don't care about anything else, as long as he can show me that I am the only one, that he's honest to me and he only loves me. That only matters to me.

I am still waiting for the right man though, for the one, who is worthy of my love. If he will ever come, I am ready. I will always wait, I know he's worth it. ❤

Hi all, so I just need some thoughts on a potential relationship.

I had a crush on a guy for a while and last night we wound up at sheetz (just me and him) and we talked for about two hours. About anything and everything, throughout the conversation he started moving my hair out of my face and tucking it behind my ears, we were holding hands, and hard core flirting. So I just sorta kissed him, and he was okay with it. We went back to my place and, yes had sex. Lots of sex.. anyways he spent the night and left this morning. During the time he was with me he asked me a lot of questions about what I think about long term relationships and why I didn't believe in love (that is a different story) and we shared really personal stories and he has been through some really similar experiences. But I was really honest about me liking him and letting him that is sex is all that we can have (we are graduating) I'll take it but if we can have more, I want more. He said he liked me to, but he didn't know what he wanted and he wasn't sure if he was into a long distance kind of things. He said.. wait for it... 'he only wanted to focus on tonight.' Anyways so thoughts on that situation would be great!

In addition, with that I want to text him. How soon is to soon? Obviously not today but is tomorrow okay?