Search Results: love handles

Can an antagonizing, meddling parent cause PTSD?

Long ago my mother made a complete fiasco in my relationship. She acted like a bully towards my boyfriend and I felt powerless to stop her. She tarnished his image to my father and others; accomodating things to her own...

Vesuvius87

Guru Age: 39

Long ago my mother made a complete fiasco in my relationship. She acted like a bully towards my boyfriend and I felt powerless to stop her. She tarnished his image to my father and

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Break Up & Divorce

Guy who rejected me 6 years ago came back?

I remember I was so in love with this guy and he rejected me and ended up getting married and had a baby. Now 6 years later he sends me a message on Instagram saying he has always loved me and he has gotten a divorce. He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Is it normal to have one love handle bigger than the other? How do I look overall?

My left love handle is bigger than my right one. Is that normal, or does it go away as I keep losing weight? How do I look overall?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Will things ever change with my family?

Last year, my partner and I got in a huge fight. It was very early in the relationship. Lots was said from us both. Then he essentially kicked me out. So I left to a family member who lives in the area. I told them what...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Wrong with him?

I was (so I thought) in a serious relationship with a man who is was loving doting attentive best sweetheart ever gave small gifts just because he was thinking of me, we never argued or had any type of fight we were both...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How as a guy do you handle rejection without getting agressive?

This is inspired by stories from many women, I've never seen another guy admit to it but I have truthfully experienced it myself, with my ex she was my first love and it devastated me when we broke up, i felt like I had...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He asked for a picture of me before he ended things with me?

We where in the talking stage I guess even tho he was telling me he loves me and all that he asked “can I see you” and I sent him a pic and he said my hair was cool and then he was like “yeah I don’t really like anyone I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Home Chats

Alfred Adler [Humanistic] Theory: We All Have One Basic Desire and Goal: To Belong and Feel Significant

So I stumbled across a reference to Alfred Adler today. I decided to do some research. I think I like this fellow. He's my kind of guy. He's a humanist. I think I'm a humanist. Not in any sort of formal or organized way...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Girl's Behavior

I'm confused, what should I do?

I'm not used to affection, love or intense emotions and they cause me immense anxiety. One guy in particular makes me feel all these. Because of the pandemic I only see him every few months which causes me to gain and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Everyone that knows about narcissism and the bible?

So I have been helping take care of my nieces since they were babies. I have tried to be a good aunt and love them as much as I could. I don't have any children or am married. I have had relationships but nowadays I don't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would an ex you haven’t talked to in 4 years ask for your phone number?

Summer of 2017, I met my ex through my mom and we started out as friends. Mind you, we were together for 36 days but it was fast and intense. My ex was like me, shy, quiet, polite, introverted, smart, sensitive and sweet....

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when your ex asks for your phone number?

Summer of 2017, I met Jose through my mom and we started out as friends. Mind you, we were together for 36 days but it was fast and intense. Jose was like me, shy, quiet, polite, introverted, smart, sensitive and sweet....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does it mean anything when your ex starts following you again on social media and asks for your phone number?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Final decision…. how should I handle this?

So, I told Devon that I don’t want a relationship right now, I just want to meet people. I’m going out with the doctor (who is, by the way, 9 years older than me). There is a good chance that the doctor and I will not...

Hannah_Ann_Linge

Xper 6 Age: 28

Friend moving, am I handling this right?

My best guy friend (I'm female), who've I've had feelings for for a while and love as whole, to where he's the person I trust the most and feel like I belong with the most (his presence I mean, not relationship wise, like...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

If a man vents to you about a girl should you guilt him into making amends or try to cheer him up?

I have had 2 men vent to me about negative feelings they have surrounding HOW they broke up with an ex who didn’t deserve the insensitivity. They expressed a feeling of justification that she wasn’t the one for him, but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Am I overreacting?

Hello. My boyfriend just returned from a weekend away being with friends. We haven't been in contact since the night before his vacations and i asked him to have dinner on Monday when he gets back. I called him today and...

Elenareedmf

Xper 4 Age: 31

I have really bad birthday anxiety. What can I do?

It’s on Wednesday and I feel terrible. I know I could reframe my mindset and think about all the things i’m grateful for but i still feel really depressed. I’m turning 29 and i’ve been alone every birthday in my 20s. my...

Anonymous

(30-35)