He asked for a picture of me before he ended things with me?

[Anonymous]

We where in the talking stage I guess even tho he was telling me he loves me and all that he asked “can I see you” and I sent him a pic and he said my hair was cool and then he was like “yeah I don’t really like anyone I can’t handle a relationship right now”

he has seen pictures of me before and he seemed interested so I’m confused why he would ask for another pic and then ending things with me ( I ever sent nudes just my face) this relationship also lasted for a month and a half

[Jake99999]

Did you ever see him in person? Or merely chat online and look at pictures. Your story sounds like you never met in person. If you have not met in person you have no clue who that guy really is or what he truly looks like. Or what he is after.


So about six weeks and he told you that he loves you…. and then dumps you and wants one last picture? I find the entire scenario to be strange. They guy is just a weird person. Or up to no good. Just block him/forget about him and move on. He sounds creepy.

[Asker]

He wanted a picture and then dumped me :( and he has seen my face many times and he takes a lot of pictures of himself so I know it's him :( and he really wanted to meet in person but it was getting alittle upset I couldn't come out yet due to family issues

[Jake99999]

Ugh. That is a tough one. Its hard when you start to have feelings and then things become a challenge and fall apart. Online relationships can be strange and unpredictable. But honestly they aren't anything real until you meet and spend time together. When I was single I tried to keep the texting and messaging to just the basics and then look for a meeting if both of us felt we wanted to continue. Because you can spend a ton of time texting and messaging and invest a lot of emotion into what is (at this point) just the idea of a person. It can't really go anywhere until you are in person. You will be okay. Just let some time pass and maybe next time, if you and an online person are getting along well, stop the messaging and go for a meeting. You can kind of get strung along, just messaging.

[hhadeshatesme]

he either realized you weren’t going to give in to sending nudes so he moved on to someone easier, or that last picture wasn’t as flattering as the others

[Asker]

What does it mean if he still views your stories?

[Asker]

Like on Instagram and stuff

[Jake99999]

It just means he is a creepy online stalker. You should block him.