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I was dating a guy for almost 2 months. I started to like him so much, I was putting so much time and effort into him. I really wanted to make it work. He always told me the feelings were mutual and that he liked me so much, blah blah. But in the end, he really only cared about himself. He ended up being self absorbed, didn’t care about my feelings. He’s a 37 year old man who can’t admit his faults or when he’s wrong. I’m pissed I wasted so much time and energy on him. I guess he’s never been in a mature healthy relationship because he has no idea how to communicate. I tried my best, and it bothers me so much that he didn’t. I broke up with him a month ago and have had no contact with him since. I feel like sending him a long text stating all the shit he did wrong and what he needs to work on as a person. Like I feel like I need some closure I guess, I have a lot to get off my chest. Also, he expressed something to me that he did sexually that at first freaked me out but I eventually accepted it. He tried to back-peddle after my reaction but I know what he told me is true. Should I do this for myself? I’ve tried to let it go but it keeps popping into my head.