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Search Results: why do i get abuse
Why is it the case that up to 85% of Americans think being a drunken fool and an adulterer (ess) is the entire goal of life?
Wisdom is a virtue, and drunkenness is literally the opposite of wisdom. 40% of Americans drink to excess two or more times per week, which is the scientific definition of being an "Alcoholic". Another 45% of...
Wade8888
Xper 6 Age: 45 Why are abusers so delusional and manipulative?
I recently got fed up with my boyfriend physically abusing me. He never uses his words when he’s upset. I do. He on the other hand results to violence and typically I’m the weak one. Who just cries and tries to stop his...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why would he forgive me for pretending to be his ex. Does this mean I’m second best?
I asked this before. he said he didn’t want to be with me anymore for no reason I was so hurt that I pretended to be his ex who he was with for 7 years on a fake email (he uses works emails, and his ex doesn’t have...
Anonymous
(25-29) WWhy does my boyfriend love me so much?
I've been abused and through so much, that I don't know who I am anymore. But my boyfriend is so positive about us and loving towards me. I dont feel like i deserve it. I just dont get what he sees and why he loves me so...
Advice4life345
Xper 2 Age: 25 How do you stop being intimidating to people if you don’t know how to be “good” anymore?
I was never “intimidating” in school. I was a mainstream nerd, the kind that nobody wants to be like. Maturity fixed some of those quirks but despite growing into my young adult years, I didn’t actually start being...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do women go back to their abusive men?
I never understood this a very smart and attractive girl who always get's shit on by her abusive Boyfriend yet she always goes back for more. Everytime. What's the deal is this girl fucked in the head? I blows my mind,...
ManHater
Yoda Age: 27 He wants me to apologize for cheating and abusing him even if it's 3 years ago. Why is it my problem he can't move on?
Not gonna lie (IDGAF what you say), I cheated on him repeatedly and assaulted him physically, because he was being needy and immature. Plus, we're just on a boyfriend/girlfriend level, we're not married so technically I'm...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do some men try to ruin a girl’s confidence?
Why do some men try to make girls hate themselves and feel insecure? Why would they try to break you? I feel like a LOT of men are like that. They might be patient for a while and then one day after a long time they might...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why does my family treats me BAD?
My family didn't invite anyone when it was my birthday, and when it is theirs they invite others. Last year, I had my first foreign boyfriend who has a bad criminal background. And because of that, my family treated...
Realitycheck9
Xper 2 Age: 31 What’s the deal with BIPOC?
I seriously don’t understand why “People of Color” was extended to become “Black, Indigenous, and People of Color.” Black and Indigenous are still people of color. I get that those two groups are hot topics lately, but...
Anonymous
(25-29) (please read) My dad is controlling me, why is my family toxic?
So my dad is like 79 he's been crazier than a bag of. mixed nuts since I was born. Living with his is literally the worst thing on the earth. he's a narcissistic ass. He would mentally and emotionally abuse me in front of...
BlkR0ses669
Xper 5 Age: 29 Why do drug users and alcoholics get to stay alive?
This is mainly just me angry at the world right now. My mum got taken away from me when I was 8, I’m now 27 and my life as been completely ruined. Yes I can live my life for her but it doesn’t cancel the fact my mental...
BrokenPromises
Xper 7 Age: 32 What does give it time mean?
So this is a bit of a long story but I've been seeing this guy for over 6 months and it ended a few days ago. About 3 months in about us and he needed more time to figure stuff out and he takes a while to make big...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do you think she went back? Would you?
So my virgin cousin fell for a prison guard. After a year, he takes her virginity. She never wanted kids of her own but has loved his 2 year old kid and even got along with the baby mama/coworker. However, He told her...
How do I distance myself from a drama queen mother who surrounds herself with psychopaths?
Basically my mother was abused by my aunt, her sister in law, since she got married. My aunt would just say vitriolic things. "In order us to be friends I would need a lobotomy". My aunt would rummage through...
Jaysonava
Explorer Age: 33 Why didn’t he pull the trigger?
I ask myself to this very day why he cocked the gun back and didn’t shoot me when he had the chance to. I’m 27 and still struggling trying to find acceptance and love. Years ago, when he was beating me very badly he put...
Moonlovespirit
Xper 6 Age: 35 What is COPD? Covid is not the only killer, of lives and relationships
You all keep asking what's happening to you? Why are you so angry all the time? What happened? Well, you got it folks. I'm telling you what happened. I got diagnosed with COPD, stage 2. If any of you remembers, in the...
Why won’t abusers leave their victims alone once the victim leaves?
You always hear stories about a man that abused his girlfriend or wife and she gets tired of it and finally leaves him. The abuser begs for forgiveness and promise to her that he will change and sometimes he may even cry...
Anonymous
(25-29) Trust Is Always A Gamble
I'm writing this Mytake about trust after two questions I recently posted: Should People Card Someone Before Having Sex With Them? The first was after a user told me a story about how he was trying to put the moves on...
Why do people get married nowadays?
What are the motivations to do this in today's world? Heterosexual women (and lesbians) are independent and don't need to be supported or hitched to a guy. Men (and gays) don't need to be handicapped financially through...
Anonymous
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