Search Results: dating bad boys

It's not just here, but many dudes online think that a woman dating a man, he must either be:
-a "bad boy" (ok, explain this to me. What do you consider "bad"?)
-Super attractive
-super rich

What makes someone bad? I know lots of nice and awesome men who are happily married or in LTRs.
It seems that most bitter guys on here think an attractive man is automatically a jerk or that he's a cheater. Um, no? Get out of your basement more.

The criteria for "good" is so god damn cringe worthy here.
Literally had an argument with a few male users because apparently not wanting to date a man who does coke and used hookers is me rejecting "good men"? Fucking really? Lol
Or I've even had a guy say that "good guys" are those who reject white women simply for dating black men.
Yes, this has happened. Sadly, he, and many other male users, were completely serious and not trolling.
YOU'RE NOT A GOOD PERSON. No matter how many times you've tipped your fedora.
It seems like the criteria for good is just not commit genocide, basically, don't be Hitler or Stalin and apparently you get the infamous "nice guy" badge.

I know lots of ugly and poor dudes, newsflash: Chicago is poverty-stricken! And they have gfs. And no, they're not all "jerks" or thugs, contrary what many people would assume because they're poor black or Latino men from Chicago.

I'm talking specifically about dating and relationships NOT casual sex as both genders pretty much take the best they can fuck for the night.

Inspired by this (and honestly like every other question or opinion of some bitter guy here):
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/girls-behavior/q2071416-are-women-a-joke

In this day and age transgender is the new gay. We have programmes telling us 5 yr olds aren't comfy in their own skin.

Do you believe transgender is as common as it seems? And do you agree with the surgery?

Personally, I believe especially with young children that it's bad parenting. Hell, I wanted to grow up to be a boy because that's how I thought it worked (I'm the youngest of 5, only brothers). But I was told I was a girl for life. I wasn't upset, that's just how it goes.
But nowadays we have programmes saying 5 year olds want to be a different gender and to me it's lazy parenting. Parenting is about teaching, and that includes telling your child what they are. Now don't get me wrong, I believe transgender is a real issue that is demonstrated with older people.

Furthermore the surgery. Let's be honest, it's not pretty. In a rare few cases put aside, I think the average person must be pretty mentally ill to consider doing that. It's mutilation put simply. But nowadays everyone seems to be thinking it's the cool new thing. It's honestly nothing I would wish on anyone, it makes my cringe just thinking.

Relationships. Let's say you genuinely did feel wrong, you got "fixed" and now you are ready for love. Can you blame someone for not wanting to be with you like that? Mentally for you it was a big step to go through, imagine springing that on someone else who had no say? It's conflicting because are they dating a male or a female? Do you go with the birth gender or the aftermath gender?

So after my mini rant (sorry) do you agree with transgender? I believe it's a problem for a slim few but I think many it's not genuine. But I may be wrong?