Search Results: deciding when to have sex

Do you still think about your first love?

I broke up with my first love a little over 3 years ago. I still think about him every single day. Is this a sign that he was "the one", or is this my inability to let go of the past and my teenage years? He was my first...

Gurdy2816

Xper 5 Age: 25

Would you ever be friends with benefits with an old ex?

So I've decided to be friends with benefits with a recent ex turned best friend- both of us are okay with it. I'm curious to see who would do the same- after all, it's just sex and a friendship but I want to know what...

Gothrocker

Xper 5 Age: 27

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Why he thinks of me while he's with another girl?

Short story short I decided to dump my ex for a while because I needed a break because of too much stress between us lately (most of the stress comes from him) I just heard today he's been with another girl having sex etc...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What I Learned From My 9 Ex-Girlfriends (Part 1)

So, me being the inferior F-grade height I am, combined with being ugly, dark-skinned, having hypothyroidism (thus effortlessly overweight), as well as having had a Precious Puberty, which lead to at least two of these...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

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If he had sex with other girl (s) during our break, is that something I should not hold against him / it’s acceptable?

We dated for a few months but I had to move to visit family in another country for 3-4 months so we decided to just end it while away since we couldn’t maintain a relationship that just started when I’d be gone longer...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Advice On How To Get My Ex Back?

Slightly over a month ago my ex and I broke up. Initially it seemed like the right thing to do, and we were having difficulty feeling connected. It was pretty mutual although hard for both of us. We were dating for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Can people explain why exactly monogamy is the default setting for relationships?

Human beings are cheaters. Men cheat, so do women and at a two to one ratio to men at that. Our perspective is confining unessesarily. In my personal life, most recently one cheated and the second did not. Number 1 hid...

ZDoes

Xper 4 Age: 56

A reminder to never give up on love, even when it feels like it forgot your address?

so a year ago today, I was dating someone I was certain I was going to marry. then he, after I asked him to break my heart softly if he ever had to break it all, broke up with me on valentine’s day. so I gave...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

My friends with benefits Doesn't want a committed relationship, Or maybe just not with me lol. But still wants to mess around?

So, I have had, a sexual relationship with my friends with benefits for about (7) years now on and off. And I get it. Like why, would my friends with benefits Commit himself to me, when he has been getting free cookies,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Help! In love with her personality! Only problem: not crazy about her body. Advice?

TLDR (but please read anyway) : girlfriend of ~half a year with 9/10 personality, 9/10 relationship potential, body 6/10. What do I do? I met this great girl. We are in a committed relationship of 3-6 months. She has...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Why it’s almost impossible for men and women to be “just friends”

Disclaimer: This myTake will discuss the topic mainly about heterosexuals. Some points discussed such as sexual attraction can apply to people who aren’t heterosexual. Other than that, I can predict that this Take is...

TruthBringer

Yoda Age: 28

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Society & Politics

The reason why men don’t like committing to women who sleep around. True or false?

Women in sex assume a passive role, and in general are the vulnerable gender. By giving away that vulnerability left and right, it shows a lack cautiousness and judgment. In the evolutionary past, women were picky...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Has anyone else deleted dating apps and said fuck it because of how shitty they are?

I deleted all of my dating apps/profiles a few days ago because i wasn't receiving respect nor finding a genuine connection. All i was getting was unworthy guys, jerks, just asking for sex etc.. and before anyone tries to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why hasn’t he texted me in a week after we got intimate?

Me and this guy I’ve been casually seeing for a year now and with whom I video call and text regularly have got intimate for the first time (almost had sex) a week ago but I haven’t heard from him ever since. I’m not sure...

Anonymous

(25-29)