If someone blocked you, would you try and contact them to find out why?

[lilyanony1]

A guy I went to primary school with exchanged numbers with me. Initially he said he was going to contact me. Then he didn't. I bumped into him a week later and he said he'd call. He did. We talked for about 40 mins catching up. He told me he's a sagittarius and I'm a capricorn we agreed it probably wouldn't work out. As its not a good mix and we both believe in these things. Anyways he went on to brag about wanting to buy either a scooter of the new iPhone. As I was going away I was cooking dinner and trying to pack. Anyways he asked me to contact him when I was back. On the Sunday he text which I didn't hear then he called but I was busy. By the time I got back it was after 12 am so out of respect I text him the following morning at 9am. He deleted his pfp on WhatsApp or deleted my number and didn't respond until 4pm at that time he was less enthusiastic responding with 1 word answers not asking questions so I basically decided whatever and blocked him. It's been 2 months now and he called from private number today to ask what's up. Then tried to tell me that I should unblock him as it was a misunderstanding, so I told him I'd think about it. He ended the call, I think we should leave things as they are. And wished me well.

I'm really not fussed, this is the second sagittarius guy that's played a game in a very similar fashion and I don't have time for it. The last guy, we had spent the best time together went on several dates, even had amazing sex. He ghosted me after I didn't want to go to sleep at his families home. (out of respect for his parents and siblings and maintain some respect since we weren't officially a thing)

[DizzyDesii]

No. A lot of people dont understand, you were likely blocked while being an anonymous troll. I can't tell you how many people i was cool with and they ended up blocked because they wanted to be a smartass while being a pink/blue anon. Thank you GaG for that anon blocking option. Like why tf are you anon on an already anon forum anyways. Ole dumbass hoes lol

[DizzyDesii]

Oh you meant in person? Still no. Good riddanceZ i probably blocked them first lmao

[lilyanony1]

I did think maybe my decision was a little rash, but when we spoke in person I did tell him that I had ended a long term relationship and I was basically not dating atm. That in the event that I do I would be looking for my husband not just a fling. He like me said people are weird today and that you have to be wary of people.
So I thought we had a understanding. I did tell him that id contact him but he was so eager. I personally don't like that, I like people to be respectful of my time and let me show that I'm decent. You know. All that behaviour on the Monday was weird and I just couldn't be bothered really... I said I'd get in touch. You know. I suppose I could have explained to him but again I don't see why I always have to be teaching someone how to act.

[PralineCream]

Men who like you don't make it this hard.

[Dingsbums]

I usually have the urge to find out the reason out of curiosity but I never contact them coz it would be creepy. But some girls came back to me and they told me they blocked me because they got into a relationship (don’t know why they couldn’t tell me the reason before blocking tho)

[Massageman]

If I had the time, I might take a few moments to find out.

But, my backlog of paperwork, CEU classes, home projects and all the rest of it are so backlogged, I'm lucky that breathing is automatic.

I'm not going to waste time and bandwidth that I can ill-afford to waste.

[GhostMochi]

It really depends on how close I was to them. If we were really good friends and they randomly blocked me for no good reason, I would probably want to know why and try to get answers. If it was someone random that I barely knew anything about anyway, I most likely would not even bother asking. That's just me, though.

[jennajordyn]

YES... Remember compassion? It's a fun one to share occasionally.. ? And maturity.. I swear it's dumb just talk you probably have way less to worry about that way and the whole thing ends faster and cleaner anyways, if that's how it has to go NPS how many times did you try to tell them please don't call me for a while before you up and blocked them? JS...

[lilyanony1]

I'm not sure I've read this well but I'll be clear. He was full steam ahead on the 31 July, he texted the 1st but I was busy with family which I told him. He called. But I missed it as I was still busy.
When I got home that night it was 12am. I didn't think it was appropriate to call. So I text the next day. He didn't respond until an hour or so later.
Which was the 2nd. Our communication was really being prompted by me.
He contacted me again on the 6th asking" you alright"
I responded and said I was OK how are you?
And he didn't reply again.
He deleted my number or his pfp so I blocked him on the 7th.
I didn't think he deserved an explanation since he seemed to be playing games with me... Him calling was a damn joke.
Ordinarily I would have hung up but he seemed he wanted to talk. But then he started saying he thinks Its a misunderstanding and that I should unblock him so I said I'd think about it. He continued to persuade me. But I said I'm not sure I'll think about it. So he said he was worth more and we should leave things as they are, so I said OK. And he wished me well.
It was better he didn't call me, but I guess like most game players they like to return to the scene of the crime to see if the damage they caused if there was any. Unfortunately it didn't work. I'm not a damsel in distress so it had no effect.

[FilmGuy93]

Yes, I would and have. Blocking someone's number and shutting down communication without explanation is a pointlessly shitty thing to do. I make attempts to reach out because I don't believe in terminating relationships as a means of solving problems

[bowenw]

He's obviously not into you. I wouldn't waste my time on him.

[lilyanony1]

So that's why I was confused that he called me it was odd how he behaved. I just helped the situation by blocking him.

[bowenw]

I get the impression he called only to try to hook up with you. He may have found someone else to play.

[lilyanony1]

Yea he definitely only wanted play time and I wasn't having it.
That's why he played games. I was not interested in that or him. As I said to others here. When we spoke I made it clear I wasn't looking for a good time. Which he also agreed.

[bowenw]

Too bad he wasted your time.

[lilyanony1]

For all of 5 mins would have been worse if he and I actually went out and or hooked up!

[bowenw]

👍👍

[legalboxers]

nope. 2 words. FUCK THEM.. not a waste of my time or energy

[lilyanony1]

I hate when guys try and use that guilt tripping behaviour to get what they want, like I said to dizzi I didn't like his conduct at all. Its like he was sulking.

[legalboxers]

@lilyanony1 lol never used the guilt trip EVER

[lilyanony1]

Fair enough. I'm a little tired of guys that behave like this. I'm really straight forward. I'm sure he'll say he's tired of women like me, but I tried to treat him nicely. Even when he didn't call the first time I didn't make a fuss.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. I'm 100% worried about myself, life and comfort. Anything that isn't helping me I don't need it nor want it.

[scooogy]

Well, I had a girl on here first talk to me on here for a while and also sexual here and there, but when she took it to the next level, she suddenly blocked me. I guess I know what's the matter.

[lilyanony1]

Maybe she was embarrassed

[scooogy]

yeah but then why block me for good?

[lilyanony1]

No idea... I'm not her. Sorry but I think she may have been embarrassed

[JakeCool99]

You both believe in star signs?
So your both stupid?
You believe every baby born on each month of the year are all the same? Use your brain

[Gwenhwyfar]

Unlikely unless I really cared about them

[pleasestopthis]

No, they can do whatever they want. I don't care

[ChiPaPa]

If I got blocked, fuck it. Not worth my time

[TheAfrikan]

No way I would , they chose there fate.

[tobr83]

Just move on

[lilyanony1]

It's for the best, I don't think it would have worked out

[tobr83]

It doesn’t sound like it would

[karaspara]

Nope

[Protein_mate]

Nah wouldn't care

[EaterPeter]

May be

[lilyanony1]

Maybe?

[EaterPeter]

May be I would may be I don't care

[EaterPeter]

Depends on the person

[EaterPeter]

Is this someone matters to you a lot?

[lilyanony1]

No... We went to school together he was the year below. I've not seen him for maybe 20 years

[EaterPeter]

I don't know why he would block you. If he doesn't matter to you then let it go.

[lilyanony1]

I blocked him because it seemed to me that he was playing games. I felt like he was punishing me for not answering his text or his call, even though I told him I would be busy with my family who I hadn't seen in 2 years. And that's why he was being shady, with his one word text responses. I decided that I wasn't prepared to deal with his crap so I blocked him.
I personally don't have any time for that nonsense or any guy that behaves like that...

[EaterPeter]

And here you are talking about him. Forgive and forget.

[Fuentes]

Nope lol