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We have been talking for 4 months and we've only seen each other 3 times. We don't talk on the phone often and the most we do is really texting. One thing I can tell you for sure is that he does really like me.
According to him, he's supposed to be single. He told me that he wants a relationship and he don't want to rush into one. He wants to make sure before. I totally understand that. However, I've never been dating someone where in the beginning he has limited availability. He also changes plans pretty last minute. He has a lot of secretes that he's not telling me to a point that it's now shady. The only thing I really know is where he works, his confusing work schedule, he bought a house with his sister and lives with his mother, he gambles, and I know his address. I know it's now not yet committed so he doesn't have to tell me where he is every day. One thing he did say is that he's not seeing/talking to any other women and, he told me not to see any other men. One day, i got fed up and told him i'm done. He got very nervous and called me telling me how much he wants me and don't see other men.

Weird thing #1, i lost my earring and he later told me he found it however, the earring was not mine. After that, he disappeared for 2 days and back to normal. Weird thing #2, he sent me a picture of himself through the mirror and I saw him wearing a band ring on his left hand on his 4th finger. I questioned him, and he just said that's where he wears his ring. I do see other photos of him wearing different rings on that same finger. Weird thing #3, he slept over one night, and he told me he has to leave at 5am. He woke up at 8:30, stormed out, and forgot some of his stuff. One thing I do know for a fact is that his sister does live at the same address as him. I just don't know if there's other people living there.

He does tell his friends about me and his friends do know about me. He also invited me to his work party (but don't know if he's just all bluffing).