What should I do if I feel like my girlfriend deserves better?

[Anonymous]

I feel like my current girlfriend doesn't deserve me... we are both in our mid 20s

Her: nice, sweet, innocent, pure, etc

Me: did party drugs (gave it up after meeting her), I have a wide variety group of friends good and 'bad', I can't stop thinking about her body (she's a beauty, I only think about her and no other girl, the most we did was made out). Although I said these, people often tell me I'm way too nice to others (super empathetic).

Us: From the looks of it, our personalities match. We both are foodies, love to travel, make each other happy, love spending time with each other, her family and friends like me, etc.

What should I do if I keep thinking that she deserves someone better even though we are happy together? I don't want to "taint" nor do I plan on tainting her. Should I talk to her about it? Thanks

[iamrobot0101]

here's the thing... im about to start dating a girl similar to this. she's super nice amazing girl, and I have a dark past, super arrogant, used to be an ass hole, and have been with 5 people already. I'm terrified of the same thing. but one thing that I will promise to always do is work my ass off to make her happy. I know I made mistakes and she deserves better than I do. but thats what love is about. and I'm trying to learn that too. she chose you and thats what you should focus on. but if you think or see areas you need to improve then by god improve yourself. if you're too lazy then do mire work for her. not nkce enough then become nicer, buy her flowers send her cards, etc. but change where you can or else if you do tak advantage of her shell leave you

[InfoBot]

Why wouldn't you just respect that she can make up her own mind? Your only responsibility is to treat her right. After that it's down to her choice to be with you or not and it would be kind of bullshit to take that choice away from her. Imagine if you're really into a girl but she just decides that you're too good for her and hence she fucks off. How would you feel?

Just be a decent guy and you're doing all that you need to.

[Asker]

I would be pretty bummed out if that happened. Thanks!

[itiskissie]

WHAT. You are obviously perfect for her. Don't be hard on yourself. This was the past, you have changed. You are better now. If she loves you, which it seems like than you should love her back as much. Just be happy and accept it! :)

My ex boyfriend was a bad kid (stealing, drugs, sex, rude) while I was a good kid (listened to my parents, good grates, friends, pure) but we still loved each other, and still are good friends. It doesn't matter :) so be happy

[Bleh-___-]

Yo I hate this so much. I can't stand when people tell me "you deserve better, you should find someone better, you should date so and so". If you want to break up, do it but I can decide for myself who I deem good enough to date. Just enjoy the relationship. Believe me, if she thinks you're not good enough she'll dump you herself

[Asker]

I really needed to hear this. Thanks!

[Bleh-___-]

Anytime 👍

[JazzKitty666]

You could talk to her about it. She might not feel the same way! She most likely likes you for you!

[AaronTupaz]

You simply work on yourself until you feel more than worthy enough for her, to the point where you feel that she's lucky to have you.

[Anonymous]

Talk to her. But if your that insecure work on yourself. If anything it should be a motivator