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So in the beginning my ex put a lot of effort into the relationship.. here are some of the things that happened:
- he would text me when he's there or home.
-he would literally stare at me and break no eye contact hand under chin etc.
- told me he loved me on the third date (2 months of talking and knowing each other)
-video called every other day for a few hours
-talked about the future and asked questions i dont know the answers too since it was new. (Once he even said oh i know my kid is not gonna be (something that was a bit important to me) )
-the parents / mom were really excited about the relationship that i got their house key..
-he gave me a care package
-wanted me to tag him in pictures whenever i would post something about us
- never came to see me after doing something and was seconds away from my place
-bought my family and I an expensive item
-during the breakup he told me to keep the shirt and wipe my tears and makeup off of it and you can tell he felt better and relieved about the situation.
-Blocked me on every social media.
-Same week i found out he was on tinder
-would sleep for 12+ hours and leave me hanging
-i would write out these reassuring messages and asked if i could keep doing those messages.
-i told him im not big on eating something and the first meal we had was something im not a huge fan of.
-didnt even cry when his pet died, he's known for cutting people out of his life and coming and go as he pleases.
We broke up because him and his family were doing an unhealthy habit that i asked if they could compromise and not have them do it literally in my face.. they did better until it went back to square one and brought up again to him.

Hello, guys-who-don't-want-to-date-or-have-relationships! I know some of you are not happy with women for whatever the reason: feminism, system bias, being hurt in the past, parents' divorce... whatever it is, have you ever met someone since you've sworn off women -- who changed your mind about women, and now you've found love or a good relationship with someone?

This question is mainly for the guys, but if women would like to answer: have you had one of these types of men fall in love with you, and if so, how did it go?

Ok... So... Lets start here... My boyfriend and I have non stop been going at it over this.

I am a bisexual female that has always had more male friends than female... Always was permiscuis when i was younger, but remember bisexual...

He is totally freaking out stating that my friends calling or texting in the middle of the night is disrespectful to our relationship but can't give me a good reason... Other than it is disrespectful. So... I asked him these three questions and his only answer is... Because its disrespectful... Can any one answer this for me and make me understand why and also why would it be ok for a girl and not a guy if that's the case...

If my friend calls me because they are bored, at 1 am and I am still awake doing nothing but scrolling fb... What is the harm in talking to them?

Same scene except my boyfriend and I are watching a movie... If I know my boundaries and say something... Hey I'll hit you up tomorrow me and my man are watching a movie.. Where is the disrespect...

Same scene except this time they say... Hey baby girl what you doing I miss you... blah blah... And I tell them look... You don't need to be calling me any more I gotta a man... Where is the disrespect...

Is it a trust issue or possibly a control thing or is he correct?

We have gone on a few dates. I noticed a shift in his behavior so I asked what was up. I said “hey, I really like you. Do you still like me?” Flat out honest with him. He doesn’t answer my question and says “I am not really looking for a relationship right now.” When we first started dating he told me that he was looking for a relationship. He added, “you’re a really nice gal, and I really liked you but I don’t think it’s going to work out. I’m really sorry.” I was really chill about it. We dated for a few months, and I should have been more... mad. But what’s the point? Anyways, I’m just a bit confused now. Was he just not that interested in me or did he let me down softly by pulling the “I am not really looking for a relationship right now” crap.