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My weight fluctuates. I'll have a flat stomach by the end of summer but I gain weight in the winter. Usually like 15/20 lbs by spring. I get attention from guys no matter my weight and I still feel good about myself so I've never cared about the fact my body does this. I drop weight in the summer drastically because I'm so active but I gain so easily because I hate the cold, I do practically no active things, and eat more. My metabolism is also very low it seems. I don't know anyone who gains and loses so much by season. I'm interested in how many people think that some weight is a problem. Even with 20lbs packed on I feel that I still have a decent body. But then again it doesn't just go to my belly it goes to my ass and boobs a little in my thighs. I also am lucky and don't look that heavy.
I won't workout. There will never be a gym membership for me. I hate working out to where I know I'm doing it, that's why I lose in the summer, because I can go camping, biking, swimming in a lake, hiking, playing sports, etc.
I've dated guys that are chubby and I've dated guys that are fit and go to the gym. I asked the one guy I was dating if my weight bothered him and he told me he usually prefers someone fit, that goes to the gym and eats well but for health reasons. He didn't feel. like I was unhealthy and he thought I was gorgeous and very fun. So my weight never was a problem in any dating relationship scenario. But on here almost every guy says they want fit girls. I want to roll my eyes. You may usually be attracted to "fit" girls but in the real world some or most of you would find someone attractive with at least a little weight.

So a few years ago the kids in my middle school told me I was weird I was fat, disgusting and ugly. And said I did drugs, or would just walk up to me just to say. Eww your face is disgusting lose weight! I am banned from my middle school because the kids there have said so much crazy stuff about me that the school decided to just block me from it since I'm now I'm in high school. People have said they'd like to fight me and push me off cliffs/ kill me because I was a ugly bitch. ( this is what guys have told me) they even went as far as stalking me. Or tried to get other girls to beat my head in. ( guys and girls) i could never leave my stuff around the school because this girl called me fat I turn around and see food open and spilled all inside my bag. I go to a high school not far from the school people bullied me at. But people don't treat me like this anymore. People may say bad things about me behind my back but I'm not treated like how I used to. Suddenly people are saying I'm pretty and I was asked out on a date on my 2nd day in high school. Mind you I live near my old middle school and the kids from my old middle school go to my high school. But they aren't giving me issues and are suddenly nice to me. Even the kids who used to ignore me are now talking to me. It's basically people are not mean to me as much and I am no longer bullied. But I don't want to think it's because I look better I tried to make up other theories. Maybe the kids have changed now that we are in high school. But I'm the same person I was in middle school. Do you think it's cuz I look better or is it because high school kids are just more mature? Fights and rumors still go around at my school but still what do you think?

I think men are a bit more picky when it comes to looks, i have always heard from men that they want a girl with big boobs, big butt, to be super curvy and to be hot and she can't be ugly or fat. I know that people have standards. I have always seen pretty girls with not good-looking guys and they love him for who he is. My dad told me that guys wouldn't be caught dead with ugly or fat girls. My dad said all women are ugly and need makeup and it's their job to stay hot. I'm always told that I'm very beautiful but if i lost weight i would be more hot. I've dated big guys and they weren't good looking but i was in love with them. I don't hate men or trying to talk down to them. There's women out there that want handsome men with Magic Mike bodies but most of them don't really care.